August Girls.... RSVP Q

Mine is on tuesday! and Im still waiting on quite a bit..about 60

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Posted by Lisafer1973

Mine is 8/1/08 and I am waiting on about 75 more. Only one came yesterday and Thursday there was none!! Of course FH's immediate family hasn't resonded yet!! Nice!

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omg same thing with me! fh's family is the culprit!

we are waiting on 38 RSVP cards... which equals 61 people

edit: many are OOT friends who I know are most likely unable to come, some are family who i know most likely WILL come, but there are still people who im really curious to hear from!

we have all of ours except for one that works in the nypd and his gf and another who just came back from iraq and is in north carolina and his gf. Both want to come and have been told that they 'have off' but you never no, so i have kept them as maybes.

Our RSVP was July 1. The only reason I have all mine is bc we have harassed...and i mean HARASSED...all of those that did not respond for the past 2 weeks. Hey, if you dont want to be harassed, send the damn RSVP card back in time. I couldnt have made it any easier for them...stamp and address are on there already. All they had to do was check, lick, seal, mail...not that difficult.

My RSVP date was July 5th, last Saturday. I made a list of people to call but I've gotten a lot this week so I'm waiting until Monday or Tuesday to call. I'm missing about 18 and it's about 32 people. Most are my mom's relatives, the others are our friends.

mine is july 29 and i am still waiting on 46 cards - totals almost 100 people!

Oh you're going to love this... mine was June 27th... still waiting on about 40 people!! It was over 2 weeks ago!!!! It's all FH's friends and family, they all suck!! FH has been calling his friends, some of them are complete morons. They're like oh yeah, i got that... I didn't know when the RSVP date was, I still have to see if I can get off work. ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? Or they just lost the RSVP card... so they didn't even bother calling either of us to tell us this... some of them who lost it are even coming! ***!

Then there's FH's family... well there's nothing we can do about that now since FH's family is on vacation with no internet, and no phone book with number's to contact these people. But FH's mom will say oh yeah they're not coming. That's wonderful, still need the RSVP back.

I hate to say it but these stupid OOTers do not understand.

At least my family/friends were reasonably responsible. We had a few late ones, but nothing this bad!

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Posted by Luvbsb4eva

Oh you're going to love this... mine was June 27th... still waiting on about 40 people!! It was over 2 weeks ago!!!! It's all FH's friends and family, they all suck!! FH has been calling his friends, some of them are complete morons. They're like oh yeah, i got that... I didn't know when the RSVP date was, I still have to see if I can get off work. ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? Or they just lost the RSVP card... so they didn't even bother calling either of us to tell us this... some of them who lost it are even coming! ***!

Then there's FH's family... well there's nothing we can do about that now since FH's family is on vacation with no internet, and no phone book with number's to contact these people. But FH's mom will say oh yeah they're not coming. That's wonderful, still need the RSVP back.

I hate to say it but these stupid OOTers do not understand.

At least my family/friends were reasonably responsible. We had a few late ones, but nothing this bad!

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a large # of the ones we're waiting on are OOTers too..... i feel your pain

Mine was june 27th and i was waiting on 40 responses by the time my rsvp date came around

mine were due 7/1 and i'm still waiting on about 90!!!!!

I only got 60 responses!
D:<
i'm gonna start calling next week

(i expected this korean people do not know what RSVP is.. they just tend to show up with their whole family )

My was June 1st. 2 weeks after, I made a list of people to call and my aunt did it for my side; his mother did it for his.

We now have all of them-but it was not easy.

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Posted by willbMrsTE

My was June 1st. 2 weeks after, I made a list of people to call and my aunt did it for my side; his mother did it for his.

We now have all of them-but it was not easy.

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your rsvp date was 2.5 months before your wedding? that must have given you lots of time for table arrangements, placecards, etc.

i'm trying to start table arrangements now (assuming that the few friends we havent heard from wont come, since they are all OOT) but it would be nice to have known a while ago!

I got 2 more RSVP's today, verbal ones... I told them to send the RSVP's back... I just don't understand people!

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Posted by Luvbsb4eva

I got 2 more RSVP's today, verbal ones... I told them to send the RSVP's back... I just don't understand people!

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nothing in the mail today, but one of FH's college friends gave us an RSVP through facebook -- she lost her invite during her move to Atlanta but she/her bf can't afford to make the trip to NY.

i did a tentative table arrangement for our friends and cousins but it's still subject to change. rsvp already people!!

i sent FH's mom an email with everyone from their side who didnt rsvp yet (all OOT) and reminded her that our hotel block is only good for the next 6 days, and then the rooms are releasd (and the price will prob go up $60/night)