B4 Wedding

jen919ifer Posted: Dec 18, 2008 12:06 AM

B4 Wedding

Did anyone constantly argue? I feel like everything is an argument, I am assuming it's the stress of 3 months to go, but it's scaring me.

melissatam2008 Posted: Dec 18, 2008 12:13 AM

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i had a lot of fights w Dh b4 the wedding . we were all stressed out about the wedding and school so sometimes we got frustrated . dont worry, is prob nuttin..=)

RadiantBride Posted: Dec 18, 2008 08:23 AM

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That is really normal. As the wedding gets closer you will each feel the pressure from both families so the stress levels are high. Don't worry too much and shake some things off. Things will get back to normal once all the stresses are over (before the wedding).

RockysGirl Posted: Dec 18, 2008 08:37 AM

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Last weekend was bad for us With literally 2 weeks until the wedding, things just got a little dicey. Plus we've been a part from one another for sooo long, and I find that the longer we are forced to talk on the phone, the more cold or short we'll become. So after 3 months of this crap and then some of the family causing problems, plus getting a house and feeling the stress with money... it's bound to happen. It was rough though and it scared me. Even though it wasn't real 'arguing', we were just really irritated with each other and I hated that! But things are so much better now. We definitely got thru it and I know things will be even better when he gets here on Monday.

So don't worry. I really do think it's normal. As long as the arguments aren't anything crazy. I don't think it's EVER okay to call each other names or to be hitting one another. But petty arguments come naturally the closer you get to your wedding day. It happens.

Things will be ok

MrsD71208 Posted: Dec 18, 2008 09:14 AM

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We were so stressed that we fought with anyone and everyone about anything. It'll get better. Be sure to take a step back when you are fighting so it doesn't escalate into something huge for no reason.

jen919ifer Posted: Dec 18, 2008 09:20 AM

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Thanks ladies !! I feel better now !! I used to be so laid back, and now everything he does im like Grrrrr and he has a short fuse with me as well. God I can;t wait till Hawaii !!

bluekat16 Posted: Dec 18, 2008 09:23 AM

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Oh yeah it's normal. FH and I have been bickering non-stop for the last few weeks. It's the stress of the wedding for sure.

RadiantBride Posted: Dec 18, 2008 09:33 AM

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Posted by jen919ifer

Thanks ladies !! I feel better now !! I used to be so laid back, and now everything he does im like Grrrrr and he has a short fuse with me as well. God I can;t wait till Hawaii !!

This is why as much as I loved my wedding the best part was the honeymoon. We LOVED it and as the wedding grew closer all we would say to each other was 'we cant wait to be on the beach'.

MCA1180 Posted: Dec 18, 2008 12:02 PM

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Completely normal!!! It's all the wedding stress catching up to you towards the end... don't worry before you know it you'll be on the beach laughing about the silly things you argued about.

hang in there, good luck!

nifheim Posted: Dec 18, 2008 12:04 PM

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very normal, we didn't really fight except over the cake and i just gave in because it wasn't worth it.

MSeed Posted: Dec 18, 2008 02:31 PM

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I fought with DH ALOT before the wedding. We had alot of outside problems and they effected the wedding.

But, now that it's all over.....things are much better!!!