I offered to pay for myself but my MOH refused (aww, she's so good to me lol ) ... and I noticed that she never asked people for extra $$$ for the things we're doing (eg: one of the things we're doing costs $35 and she told people it was $35) ... it almost sounds like she's paying for me all on her own ... that's wrong, right?
TIA
FutureLW
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everyone who came to mine split it (even though I offered to pay for myself...they wouldn't let me )
DWKSwed
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I think it depends on who runs it and what they're asked to contribute. Whenever I am in a bridal party I am prepared to chip in for the bride for the bachelorette party; if it's reasonably priced stuff then I would be prepared to chip in for her if I attend at all. At my bachelorette party my sister (MOH) paid for my portion, and someday I will do the same for her.
DaniandKen2010
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Everyone I've been to that's been local its everyone who comes chips in for the bride.
BriansWifey
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Everybody (excluding me) split the cost of everything.
saralee1978
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One bach party I went to involved seeing a Broadway show, and I know we all split it - and I wasn't even invited to the wedding.
All the other bach parties I have been to have been kind of haphazzard....in that we just went to culture club (yes, that long ago), and everyone kinda just took turns buying drinks and making sure the bride had a beverage.
I would think everyone in attendance, not just the bridal party, should contribute.
