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Bach-Party Question

cdh2672 Posted:

Bach-Party Question

So did anyone else have to leave some people off their guest list for the bachelorette party? We are doing a spa day,,, and if I invited EVERYone of my friends it would've been too many.I wanted to keep it small. So, I invited my sister, my FH's sisters and close friends. I just hope it doesn't get brought up at the shower since it's already been planned... I don't want to offend anyone...but I had to do this. I'm starting to worry about silly little things!
HersheyKiss727 Posted:

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My bachelorette party is going to be a weekend away. I am not sure where we are going but I know it is somewhere local (I think Jersey-AC/Shore). Since it was a full weekend, the cost adds up quickly. I decided to only invite my bridal party and two close friends. The rest of my friends I felt like 1)it would be too many people and get crazy and hectic or 2)it was a lot of money to ask my friends to spend. I think that most people are understanding of that.

One thing that you could do is do a girls night out to dinner and drinks with all of your friends. This way it's less stressful but they are still included.
Karrie D Posted:

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My bachelorette party is going to be with my bridal party only. We are having dinner first so my daughter, the mom's and my teenage niece can be a part of it but then after dinner me and the brides maids are going out.

Rivera2be Posted:

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For my Bachlorette party my two BM's planned a weekend at Foxwood's. They sent out an evite for Sat. night to my other friends to join us for dinner and then hitting the club there. Then Sun and Mon were just for me and my BM's. We went outlet shopping on Sunday and Monday hit the spa.

wishingwell1230 Posted:

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I think its totally up to you who you invite to your bachelorette party, so don't feel guilty. I've been to bachelorette parties of a casual friend and I've not been invited to a close friend's since I wasn't in her wedding party. It's totally fine, don't sweat it.

If you wanted to not have them feel left out maybe plan a separate part (dinner, night out) with everyone and just keep the spa day exclusive?
pixietina Posted:

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Yeah I am not inviting that many people because I want to keep it small.

cdh2672 Posted:

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Great - thanks everyone, I feel better

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