Oh, me and fh had the bachelor party fight tonight has anyone else had it yet? I'm so p@ssed off!!!!! Sorry, stupid fight just needed to vent.
Utterhappiness
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What fight though? Did he have one to go to for another guy? Or was it about the anticiipation for his own?
HotAir
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I actually don't mind if my FH goes to one or if he has one. I encourage him to have one actually.
TaraVinny
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my FH has been looking forward to his bachelor party for a long time. i really want him to have a good time with all his guys. i'm down with whatever they plan.
beram63
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we've had it a few times bc of FH's stupid friends making stupid comments just make the most of making up
Mrs. V 2008
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I went through this..don't let it bother you! trust me! its not worth it! its a stupid thing thats over quicker than you think..and as I've learned ..fh is into me no one else!
WinterGrl09
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Its a touchy subject and i've fought with FH over this too. But ultimately I want a bachelorette party too and I really do want FH to have fun at his own.
VickiR510
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Nope havent fought over this. I think at our age (33/34) we have been there & done that. We know whats more important to one another. Im not going to fight over something like this. We know that our relationship & respect for one another will allow us to make the proper decisions in any situation. Im not a fan of the strip clubs (lapdances etc) or the hookers (and FH knows this) & really neither is FH so i trust he will do the right thing. Its what we have, trust & honesty. Its 2 main reasons why i love FH so much! But there are so many more.
Dont fight over this talk to him & let him know how certain things make you feel & how it certainactions direspect the relationship.
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We had a mini convo about the parties but there still far away so the big fight hasnt come yet. Im not to worried though manily b.c my Fh best man is his father, so i dont think hes going to plan something wild n crazy! I mean being in a relationship is all about turst u have to trust that they will make good choices
MrsCtobe
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LOL been there, done that....u know what, the best attitude is a passive one.
dazies1011
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We have had a fight yet..... but. last night we were watching a movie and there was a piont in the movire where they went to a strip club and I said 'Is this what you are going to do for yours?' He said 'No' I was like ' Yeah right' ..He said 'Well I dont kow what they are going to do for me' my answer was 'Well you do have a say in it' and that was it. So the fights will come
Utterhappiness
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Well we are doing joint parties and going to Vegas together as a large group BUT spending 1 night alone with just girls vs. guys. We are lucky though bc all of our friends are friends with each other and all mesh well phew...
I can see how this would be a tough situation with some poeple though and in my past, with other relationships I could totally see where this coul dbe a stressful situation. I did tell him NO STRIPPERS.. I said this though bc last year my friend had a male stripper at her party for the first part and Anthony asked me not to go bc it made him uncomfy. I agreed to just join them after, which was fine with me, bc persoanly I have seen them before and they gross me out too soooo it worked out. And I just felt like if I cant have them... then he cant either.
