Bachelor Parties

Is it just me or is anyone else dreading FH's Bachelor Party !! I can't stand to think about lap dances. I am not insecure but what the hell do I want someone else grinding on my man and putting the Boobage in his face !!!

I've also bartended for a long time and have seen some pretty raunchy strippers and FH's totally cheating.

I hate it and wish they never came up with that tradition !!!

I am totally dreading it! I wanted to post this topic for a while but didn't want to be the only one with a problem with it! My FH and his friends want to o to Vegas for a long weekend! I am totally against this. I understand that ou want to go out with your friends but I think Vegas in completely unneccessary! Ug, men Where are everyone elses FH's going?

I'm not really dreading it. FH just wants to go fishing with the guys - they're all too old to stay out all night

I don't know how I feel about it really. FH really isn't into the stripper thing at all, it makes him feel really uncomfortable. He told his BM that he didnt want any and his BM actually got mad and said that they were for everyone else not just him. I really trust FH so I don't really care but at the same time I do NOT trust some of his friends and would prefer the whole thing to just not happen. I also sort of think the stripper thing is a very innapropriate thing to do weeks or days before you are getting married to someone. JMO.

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

I am totally dreading it! I wanted to post this topic for a while but didn't want to be the only one with a problem with it! My FH and his friends want to o to Vegas for a long weekend! I am totally against this. I understand that ou want to go out with your friends but I think Vegas in completely unneccessary! Ug, men Where are everyone elses FH's going?

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Luckily most of his gm's are broke so there will be no Vegas in his future but I would freak !

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

I am totally dreading it! I wanted to post this topic for a while but didn't want to be the only one with a problem with it! My FH and his friends want to o to Vegas for a long weekend! I am totally against this. I understand that ou want to go out with your friends but I think Vegas in completely unneccessary! Ug, men Where are everyone elses FH's going?

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My FH is going to Vegas also for a long weekend. I have no issues with it right now. But I think once that actual weekend rolls around it will be a different story. I just hope my bachlorette party gets moved to be the same weekend.

I'm not freaked at all. I think he and his buddies are more worried about me and my friends.

OMG don't get me started on this
FH and his BM have the bright idea to do vegas what a fight that started.
I finally gave in 1/2 way told him no was in he ll are they going the week before the wedding if they NEED to do vegas do it a month before AT LEAST!!! and if any of them end up having a elvis wedding with a stripper..........

DON'T BOTHER COMING HOME!!!!!!!!!!

Nah, my FH hates strip clubs, strippers...he just feels bad for the girls. (I love strip clubs btw and have tried to get him to come to one with me for 8 yrs. LOL-Im the pervert in the relationship)

Honestly, he'll probably go upstate to his BM's cabin and they will hunt, and ride snowmobiles, ATV's and get wasted at the ONE bar they have in town for a weekend.

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

I am totally dreading it! I wanted to post this topic for a while but didn't want to be the only one with a problem with it! My FH and his friends want to o to Vegas for a long weekend! I am totally against this. I understand that ou want to go out with your friends but I think Vegas in completely unneccessary! Ug, men Where are everyone elses FH's going?

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awww i went to vegas for my bachelorette party. Maybe others think its unnecessary but i had an amazing time and honestly by the time of my bachelorette party i needed the getaway. It was 3 weeks before my wedding and i am glad i had that time to relax bc the 2 weeks before the wedding were pure madness. Plus for me i just wanted that time with JUST my girls and really spend time with them and have fun. Everything else involved with the wedding such as shower, e-party, wedding day you dont get to spend as much time with just them. SO this was a way for me to hang out with them and give them all my attention

I honestly didnt want to do the city bc i grew up 10 mins from the city and always hung out in the city. I went to mostly all the big clubs and bars, lounges so it would've been just like a regular night for me. Plus i didnt care to see a bunch of idiots i knew lol.

Dh went to vegas also, and when his brother brought up AC i said NO dh wants vegas and all his friends already said they want vegas. This might sound weird but i wanted him to go to vegas instead of doing a night out in the city. DH was very big into the city party scene and everywhere he goes theres somebody from his past so i didnt care for others from his past to be at the same places he went to for his bachelor party

I really don't care what FH does for his bachelor party......My theory is if they are going to cheat or do something 'bad' they will do it with or without the bachelor party.

theres a chance we're going to vegas together...but will spend some time apart of course...we've both never been there and would like to experience some of it together ya know?

ETA: i am blessed that the best man just got engaged and has a girl who's changed him... he wont do anything as wild as he would done in the past

Fh hates strip clubs etc. and wanted to go out for a nice steak dinner. Boring! lol So I brought up the idea of maybe taking a party bus to Atlantic City or Going to Vegas with the entire bridal party and he liked the idea.
So we are having a duel bachelor/bachelorette party.

Ugh I feel the same way… we were just talking about this with his friends last week at dinner. They want to go up to Montreal bc it’s the NHL draft and there are casinos there. I know there are going to be strippers too and FH is usually really good with that (or so he says!) but since he’s the bachelor I know everyone’s going to be buying him lap dances and stuff. As long as there’s no back room action!

I told FH’s youngest brother that he’s going to have to be my spy.

I really don't want it to happen, the whole stripper thing!!!!
I'm hopping they just get drunk at a bar, NOT too drunk LOL

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Posted by chicky724

Ugh I feel the same way… we were just talking about this with his friends last week at dinner. They want to go up to Montreal bc it’s the NHL draft and there are casinos there. I know there are going to be strippers too and FH is usually really good with that (or so he says!) but since he’s the bachelor I know everyone’s going to be buying him lap dances and stuff. As long as there’s no back room action!

I told FH’s youngest brother that he’s going to have to be my spy.

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dont worry so much about montreal... i went to a strip club with FH when i was there and it wasnt that big of a deal... they are just really young and every club is 18 so its like partying with the kiddies... def not even close to vegas standards lol altho it is an interesting city