Is it just me or is anyone else dreading FH's Bachelor Party !! I can't stand to think about lap dances. I am not insecure but what the hell do I want someone else grinding on my man and putting the Boobage in his face !!!
I've also bartended for a long time and have seen some pretty raunchy strippers and FH's totally cheating.
I hate it and wish they never came up with that tradition !!!
krislee316
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Posted by gporka23
I don't know how I feel about it really. FH really isn't into the stripper thing at all, it makes him feel really uncomfortable. He told his BM that he didnt want any and his BM actually got mad and said that they were for everyone else not just him. I really trust FH so I don't really care but at the same time I do NOT trust some of his friends and would prefer the whole thing to just not happen. I also sort of think the stripper thing is a very innapropriate thing to do weeks or days before you are getting married to someone. JMO.
Amen your words are exactly what I was thinking
I trust Fh totally but I cant trust like 2-3 of his friends but that really shouldnt matter cause if I trust FH then who cares about this friends right?
Espo22
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Ugh I feel the same way… we were just talking about this with his friends last week at dinner. They want to go up to Montreal bc it’s the NHL draft and there are casinos there. I know there are going to be strippers too and FH is usually really good with that (or so he says!) but since he’s the bachelor I know everyone’s going to be buying him lap dances and stuff. As long as there’s no back room action!
I told FH’s youngest brother that he’s going to have to be my spy.
dont worry so much about montreal... i went to a strip club with FH when i was there and it wasnt that big of a deal... they are just really young and every club is 18 so its like partying with the kiddies... def not even close to vegas standards lol altho it is an interesting city
i went to a strip club in vegas for my bachelorette lol, i dont even know how we ended up there but we were at a club and then we met a bunch of ppl and when we were leaving we all got in a limo(limos are like cabs in vegas, everytime we went out we never saw cabs just limos lol) and we just went lol. It was spearmint rhino which is the biggest one i think and always has 300 strippers at a time. It wasnt that big of a deal to tell you the truth. I mean yeah there were a bunch of the big seats they have at strip clubs all in the middle and guys getting lap dances but nothing outrageous happening, well maybe if you go in the backroom lol but main area was fine. And the strippers were all so nice, when i went to the bathroom they all congratulated me and asking me about the wedding, very nice girls
Espo22
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Posted by gporka23
I don't know how I feel about it really. FH really isn't into the stripper thing at all, it makes him feel really uncomfortable. He told his BM that he didnt want any and his BM actually got mad and said that they were for everyone else not just him. I really trust FH so I don't really care but at the same time I do NOT trust some of his friends and would prefer the whole thing to just not happen. I also sort of think the stripper thing is a very innapropriate thing to do weeks or days before you are getting married to someone. JMO.
Amen your words are exactly what I was thinking
I trust Fh totally but I cant trust like 2-3 of his friends but that really shouldnt matter cause if I trust FH then who cares about this friends right?
exactly! i mean if you had a friend who was wild, would you do the same things she was doing just bc you were out together? I am sure you wouldn't. ANd if a guy came on to you while you were out, would you go for it just bc he came on to you? i am sure you wouldn't. I know some girls have said before they trust their FH but not the nasty strippers or other girls, but part of trusting is that they would say NO to any girl that would come on to them. If a guy came on to you and you went for it you cant blame it on the guy and say we'll he came on to me what was i supposed to do.
I agree with a previous poster. If a guy cheats then he would cheat anywhere, and doesn't have to be his bachelor party. A guy who never cheats wouldnt for the first time in his life decide OK i will become a cheater for tonight.
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My FH is going to Vegas in January. I'm not making a big deal about it. I am sure there will be plenty of debauchery, but I trust him, so I don't think it'll go too far. I just try not to think about it.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Posted by chicky724
Ugh I feel the same way… we were just talking about this with his friends last week at dinner. They want to go up to Montreal bc it’s the NHL draft and there are casinos there. I know there are going to be strippers too and FH is usually really good with that (or so he says!) but since he’s the bachelor I know everyone’s going to be buying him lap dances and stuff. As long as there’s no back room action!
I told FH’s youngest brother that he’s going to have to be my spy.
dont worry so much about montreal... i went to a strip club with FH when i was there and it wasnt that big of a deal... they are just really young and every club is 18 so its like partying with the kiddies... def not even close to vegas standards lol altho it is an interesting city
i went to a strip club in vegas for my bachelorette lol, i dont even know how we ended up there but we were at a club and then we met a bunch of ppl and when we were leaving we all got in a limo(limos are like cabs in vegas, everytime we went out we never saw cabs just limos lol) and we just went lol. It was spearmint rhino which is the biggest one i think and always has 300 strippers at a time. It wasnt that big of a deal to tell you the truth. I mean yeah there were a bunch of the big seats they have at strip clubs all in the middle and guys getting lap dances but nothing outrageous happening, well maybe if you go in the backroom lol but main area was fine. And the strippers were all so nice, when i went to the bathroom they all congratulated me and asking me about the wedding, very nice girls
what nice girls.... that cracks me up!
Espo22
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Posted by chicky724
Ugh I feel the same way… we were just talking about this with his friends last week at dinner. They want to go up to Montreal bc it’s the NHL draft and there are casinos there. I know there are going to be strippers too and FH is usually really good with that (or so he says!) but since he’s the bachelor I know everyone’s going to be buying him lap dances and stuff. As long as there’s no back room action!
I told FH’s youngest brother that he’s going to have to be my spy.
dont worry so much about montreal... i went to a strip club with FH when i was there and it wasnt that big of a deal... they are just really young and every club is 18 so its like partying with the kiddies... def not even close to vegas standards lol altho it is an interesting city
i went to a strip club in vegas for my bachelorette lol, i dont even know how we ended up there but we were at a club and then we met a bunch of ppl and when we were leaving we all got in a limo(limos are like cabs in vegas, everytime we went out we never saw cabs just limos lol) and we just went lol. It was spearmint rhino which is the biggest one i think and always has 300 strippers at a time. It wasnt that big of a deal to tell you the truth. I mean yeah there were a bunch of the big seats they have at strip clubs all in the middle and guys getting lap dances but nothing outrageous happening, well maybe if you go in the backroom lol but main area was fine. And the strippers were all so nice, when i went to the bathroom they all congratulated me and asking me about the wedding, very nice girls
what nice girls.... that cracks me up!
yeah dh was cracking up when i was telling him how nice they were. But they really were, it was the same way as if regular girls in the bathroom congratulating me and wishing me the best of luck
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I am not really worried about the whole Bachelor Party thing. FH just wants to go to AC or something like that.
He and 4out of 5 of his Groomsmen don't drink. I feel like most of the stupidity occurs when alcohol is involved.
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is there a reason why u haven't talked to ur fh about it??? regardless of his buddies - if it really bothers u u should speak up...and honestly imo he should respect it...some people are okay with it and that's fine, but some people are not - and that's fine too. either way - ur feelings should be respected. jmo. it's not about the whole 'i'm not cheating it's just strippers' thing...it's about honoring & respecting you - and imo a raunchy strip club is none of the above if you're not in agreement with it.
