my fh told me in the beginning he doesnt like strip clubs. he went to his friends bachelor party and went to a strip club which i didnt care because it wasnt his party he went to the city with a group. Now he is insisting on one for his bachelor party and I should not ask questions because that is what a bachelor party is.
justnicethings
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i don't mind the strip clubs, but if i find out that FH has contact with one of them (example: lap dance) I will seriously kill him. not joking, and he knows it.
JandS
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As long as he's just looking and there is no touching involved, I'm ok. I just never want to hear about it. ever. FH doesn't want strippers but I know his friends and BM will try to force it.
KristyANDMatt224
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I hate this convo and it gets me uneasy and upset whenever I discuss it... But, im that girl who doesn't mind strip clubs but I am NOT ok with lap dances or any touching AT ALL. When FH and I first started to date, he went to Vegas a month later and a friend got him a lap dance. The rest of his trip there I debated still being with him when he returned. In my eyes, he just cheated on me and clearly he was not the man I thought he was. But after a HUGE teary eyed talk, he promised if he had known my feeling on it, that never would have happened and that it never will again. I trust that. A strip club sponsers his softball team so he used to go every thurs night to support the bar. I didn't care. However my heart sinks and I get knots every annual Vegas trip bc of what happened But, bach parties are different and when HE is the guy getting married, the strippers will chase him around, no doubt egged on by stupid friends. That's why I'm not ok with strippers for his Bach party. I trust him but why put yourself in that kind of situation. Right now he says he doesn't want that, but who knows what his brother will plan!
