Bachelor/Bachelorette Party

barbara Posted: Jul 18, 2002 11:30 AM

Bachelor/Bachelorette Party

Hi,

I was wondering if anyone has ever heard of a co-ed bachelor party? My sister wants to do this the Sat. night before our wedding because a lot of people don't know one another and a bigger group would be better. We were thinking of starting out at say Govenors for a comedy show and then taking the ferry to Fire Island for bar-hopping and hanging out at the beach. Opinions?

oneday Posted: Jul 18, 2002 11:53 AM

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My FH's sister and brother-in-law had one. It was really pretty fun. But all it really was was most of the bridal party and some extras went with them to a bar and hung out. Nothing too crazy. I'm not sure why they wanted to have one together - part of me likes the idea (less worries about what his friends will do - or mine for that matter) but part figures, it'll be nice to have a 'girls night out'.

bodengallo Posted: Jul 18, 2002 02:44 PM

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I have alot of out of town guests and we have decided to go to Tony and Tina's Wedding the friday night before our wedding and then I am going out with the girls in my bridal party (who will be in town then) in the city for my bachlorette party after the show. So it's sort of for both of us? My FH wants to do a golf trip with his friends too.

Samanthas Mom Posted: Jul 19, 2002 12:32 AM

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my friend linda had a coed booze cruise that people enjoyed
we are not having coed but I thought the coed booze cruise was a good idea

aug9bride Posted: Jul 19, 2002 07:02 AM

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I made this suggestion, all the guys laughed at me.

2003wedding. Posted: Jul 20, 2002 12:32 AM

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aug 9--same thing happened to me--but i am not giving up!!

tammy--where did they sail out of for the booze cruise
--barbara--that sounds like a fun, relaxing idea--(if the guys go along w/it-you're lucky!!) i always have a great time in fire island! sounds like a fun time !

barbara Posted: Jul 20, 2002 04:20 PM

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I think that we are going to do it. I am not one to be traditional and go to a strip club to look at hairy, bulky guys. I want to just have a lot of fun and hang out with all of my friends, not just the female ones.