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BACHELORETTE party problems.....

maressa Posted:

BACHELORETTE party problems.....

OK, my FH is upset with my because i put down a girls name that maybe shouldnt be going to my bachelorette. Because she is my FH sister's FH's ex girlfriend.
The only thing is she is also my friend, whom i havent seen in a long time and thought it would be fun for her to go to my bachelorette..

BUt, he thinks that was a bad idea because the girl that I invited threatened his sister when she and her FH first started going out.

Now mind you the girl is now in a serious relationship...

I just dont know what to do, he said they are going to ask his sister to see if she is ok with it... but, i feel bad about having her go to a party where she will feel uncomfortable either way.
diva7531 Posted:

Re: BACHELORETTE party problems.....

JMHO, if you haven't seen her in a while and she caused drama for someone who is gonna be family, I wouldn't invite her. IS she invited to the wedding?

qtdimps23 Posted:

Re: BACHELORETTE party problems.....


Posted by diva7531

JMHO, if you haven't seen her in a while and she caused drama for someone who is gonna be family, I wouldn't invite her. IS she invited to the wedding?



i have to agree. since FSIL is closer to you, if she doesn't feel comfortable, I would uninvite the other girl.
cookiemonster Posted:

Re: BACHELORETTE party problems.....

are you close with your FSIL? if so, can you talk to her and see how she would feel about it? if it's something that happened a long time ago, she may be totally over it. brothers can be protective of their sisters so FH may be overreacting a little. keep in mind i'm saying this without knowing the history or what the threat was.

MJDoc12 Posted:

Re: BACHELORETTE party problems.....


Posted by diva7531

JMHO, if you haven't seen her in a while and she caused drama for someone who is gonna be family, I wouldn't invite her. IS she invited to the wedding?



ditto. no sense in mixing together ingredients for drama....two girls who are not fans of each other and alcohol (which inevitably happens at bach. parties) will most likely equal some serious drama and a fight later that evening. don't invite the other girl if i were you

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