bachelorette party question

as i've stated in other posts, my entire bp is from out-of-state. because of this, i had to help in planning my bridal shower (which i didn't mind) and i've also had to help plan my bachelorette party (again, i don't mind).

there is my moh and two bms. we're all cousins, and i can't wait to spend time with them!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm actually looking forward to that a little more than the actual reception. we haven't all been in the same state since 1991.

here is the question.... bp+me=4 women. there are two other distant cousins who will be here ... total 6 women.

is it wrong to NOT invite anyone else?

i really want this to be time for us to catch up and laugh all night long. i don't want to have to spend the night having to 'babysit' other women.

ladies... give it to me straight

why not? i think it's awesome that you want to make a 'family night'.... go for it.

i mean as long as your cousins are the only oens in your BP, i say go for it! (because if you have non-family in your BP they have to be invited to the bachelorette!)

if you think you might want to do a night with your friensd or other girls... maybe you coudl do a low-key night out with some drinks or something simple.

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Posted by libby2595

the only 'women' in my bp who are not invited to the bachelorette party are ALL under the age of 11

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then i see no problem with partying with ur family.

i don't think there are any rules to it...do what you'd like!

It's all about you...ENJOY IT! The time flies!!!!