bacheloretty party question/concern

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Mar 22, 2006 03:06 PM

bacheloretty party question/concern

My FH says I worry too much about other people, but has anyone had this worry:

My girlfriends are not one unified group that all know each other. Some girls know each other, but a lot don't know anyone but me. Were you worried about everyone having fun at your bachelorette party? I guess I'm worried that someone will feel awkward or left out?

Maybride519 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 03:08 PM

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I had the same concerns so I had a get together last month with all the girls who are attending the bachelorette party, and we hung out at my MOH's house and everyone got to know eachother.

maybride03 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 03:10 PM

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Posted by glinda_goodwitch

My FH says I worry too much about other people, but has anyone had this worry:

My girlfriends are not one unified group that all know each other. Some girls know each other, but a lot don't know anyone but me. Were you worried about everyone having fun at your bachelorette party? I guess I'm worried that someone will feel awkward or left out?

You know, I had this same worry, but it turned out fine. Your responsibilities just extend to having a good time and enjoying yourself. Your girlfriends should be adult enough to introduce themselves to each other and to have conversations, even if they don't know the other people. If you're really worried, another thing you can do is maybe to ask your MOH or another bridesmaid to keep an eye out and see if someone is being left out and make sure to introduce that person to someone else. But honestly, I think it will be fine. Everyone will be there to celebrate with you!

cindyandkevin Posted: Mar 22, 2006 03:14 PM

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I had that same concern about my girls, one of my BMs doesn't know the others and my MOH doesn't know anyone! But apparently they were getting together and talking to each other over email without me knowing bc they all got along great at my shower!! I was so happy and now I'm not worried anymore. It'll work out and you'll be pleasantly surprised!!

Sunrise813 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 03:15 PM

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Posted by glinda_goodwitch

My FH says I worry too much about other people, but has anyone had this worry:

My girlfriends are not one unified group that all know each other. Some girls know each other, but a lot don't know anyone but me. Were you worried about everyone having fun at your bachelorette party? I guess I'm worried that someone will feel awkward or left out?

I'm in the same situation, but I figure that coem that night everyon ewill be out to have a good time and it will all work itself out. Plus I fgure some of them hae already been in contact with my Sis (MOH) and maybe even each other because they are planing my shower.

DandS Posted: Mar 22, 2006 03:34 PM

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I have a few girls as well that will be coming to the BP that do not know anyone else, but everyone is very friendly and will hang out all together, so I do not think it will be a problem for anyone. I also went to 2 BP's that I did not know anyone either, and I was fine. I talked with everyone and it ended up being so much fun!!!

EMES2006 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 03:37 PM

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Yes, I have the same concerns. I have little groups of friends, and I am worried if one girl can't make it, the other girls in the group wont go, and that would totally change the number of people at my bach. party. If that happend among ALL of my friends, then no one would show up!!

But fortunately, they are all pretty social girls, so they should all get along pretty well. It's just so weird seeing them all in the same place.

Sunrise813 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 03:40 PM

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Don't worry unless you are right out of high school, evryone has a few sets of friends that they have made along the way, colege, work ect...

I'm sure everyone will have a great time, plus a few cocktails and everyone will let loose.

jenntony Posted: Mar 22, 2006 03:46 PM

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i'm not too overly worried about it. my MOH knows everyone and one of the BMs liives about 20 min from my sis (MOH) and the rest of us are 2-4 hrs away but everyone is pretty similar in personality so i think that it will be fine and they will also be meeting at the bridal shower too

Soon2BeMrsS Posted: Mar 22, 2006 04:16 PM

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I went to a destination wedding for (FH's cousin the groom) when I went out w/ the girls for the Bacchlorette party I had fun, & I didn't know anyone, I only met the bride once, before too

justshir Posted: Mar 22, 2006 04:21 PM

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i had the same concerns but i made sure to make my rounds. kinda intro one to another. they're big gals anyway. the social wheel will turn before you know it.

jada2destiny Posted: Mar 22, 2006 05:09 PM

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Trust me, once everyone has had a few drink, they'll be fine

Good Luck

shelby34 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 06:09 PM

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I have been to bachelorette parties where I only knew the bride. At first, I was worried, but once everyone has a few drinks, they become best friends! hahaha. I am in the same boat, but I am sure they will all have fun just because they are social and fun people individually.

sarahbelle Posted: Mar 22, 2006 08:55 PM

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I had the same concern for my shower. It will work out. All of the girls are there for you. They will have a great time.

JCam695 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 09:16 PM

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I think they will have a great time because they are all there to celebrate you!!!

I wouldn't worry too much, just have fun and they will too.

scappy123 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 09:17 PM

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I have a lot of small groups of friends (work, college, old jobs, etc), some have met each other before, but they are all pretty sociable.
As a used-to-be painfully shy girl, when i had things like that to go to, if I at least sort of knew someone I would always be ok.
Remember, you are the common denominator they all have, they are there to celebrate with you, I am sure it will be fine

bacibaci Posted: Mar 22, 2006 11:41 PM

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I had the same concerns too but now that everyone met at my shower and seemed to get along just fine I've let go of worrying about that. Once people are in a social setting (and after a drink or two LOL) they warm up to each other pretty easily.