I totally trust my Fh but am anxious about his bachleor party. I plan on being with my BP that nite, but I kind of feel uneasy that his is such a surprise, and also anxious about the whole thing. Anyone else feel this way?
Valentinegirl
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My FI went to South Beach last weekend and I wanted him to have a good time. Sometimes you cant help feeling anxious though. I'm sure he will do nothing to worry you.
pinkgirl
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I feel the same. Actually I wrote about it a couple of months ago and eveyone here calmed me down. I think most people feel this way.
pinkstar025
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i dont blame you...but he loves you and you trust him :)
september2004
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i trust my FH 100%
Bebalina
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I trust mine 100% too....but I think that's really natural to feel worried ...especially when its out of home base....even though my wedding is still further away...while i enjoy discussing the wedding details...the guys all like to discuss the BACHELOR PARTY......you'll be fine...just remember you have a bachelorette party too! And you can just as much fun, if not more! Cheer up!
OctGroom
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Only a real fool would do something so stupid.. sure he may go to a strip bar.. or his friends may get him a few strippers.. other than that, it'll go no further... the guys will drink and get sloshed but it'll be fine.
I am sure you are with a responsible man.
I only know of one instance of a guy who really was sleazy on the night of his bachelor party.. and this guy was a sleaze-ball to begin with.. (can't understand how some girl would want him)...
Now if you really are concerned... you can do like this other bride I know whose fiancee went to somebody else's bachelor party...
She did things.. that certainly 'curtailed' his interest.. if you know what I mean..
MCDO15
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in all honesty...i don't want strippers at my party. (is that ok for a guy to say?)
to much drama, peer persure about doing something in your mind that is bad but your friends say 'there nothing wrong with a lap dance or something'
i'll just avoid.
me and FW might get a party bus, fill it up with pepole and drinks..and take a night out on the town.
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Posted by MCDO15
in all honesty...i don't want strippers at my party. (is that ok for a guy to say?)
to much drama, peer persure about doing something in your mind that is bad but your friends say 'there nothing wrong with a lap dance or something'
i'll just avoid.
me and FW might get a party bus, fill it up with pepole and drinks..and take a night out on the town.
That's great for a guy to say. My FH says the same and I believe him!! Whenever they go on their golf trip, they end up at strip clubs and he always goes back to the hotel. Some guys just have no interest in being around that and I think that's great.
MCDO15
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jeez..i thought i was the only one..hehe
i thought the party bus thing will silly but FW said that sounds like a plan..lets do it. I came up with the idea after seeing the inside of a party bus and seeing an ad to nyc/atlantic city for a resecptable price.
djkatscan
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I trust my FH..but his friends are the ones I don't trust. It would be just like them to take FH to get a lap dance or something. And he is so nice he prolly would not say no to them. His cousin is BM so hopefully he will just take FH to Atlantic city or something. MCDO15: I have to LMAO every time I see your peanut butter jelly dance bannana! It cracks me up!
MrHostility
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FW doesn't want me to have a bachelor party. She doesn't even like to talk about it. I understand her position, but I feel she should understand mine. I'm a good guy, and I would never do anything to jeapordize our relationship. It feels like a trust issue, which really hurts, because I've never done anything to not be trusted.
I understand she'll want to go have fun with her friends, and I'm not afraid of what she would/will do. Meh, I dunno, whatever.
shannon326
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Hey girls & guys!! Let me just say I also felt so uneasy about my FI B-party He left yesterday for vegas!! I was so upset when he left and didn't let him see me that way.. We kissed and he walked out the door and then ran back in to say goodby again... When he arrived in vegas he got all sappy with me on the phone and was actually crying a bit telling me how much he loves me and wished I was there with him to see it all.. (as all of his buddies were in the back round craking jokes on him) I know he loves me and would never do anything to jeapordize our relationship... I realized then that I let my insecurities get the best of me. I have absolutely nothing to worry about he his coming home to me and we will spending the rest of our lives toghether.. Boys will be boys and men will be men!! I think I found a great man!! I can't wait to see him on monday night!!
MCDO15
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Posted by djkatscan
I trust my FH..but his friends are the ones I don't trust. It would be just like them to take FH to get a lap dance or something. And he is so nice he prolly would not say no to them. His cousin is BM so hopefully he will just take FH to Atlantic city or something. MCDO15: I have to LMAO every time I see your peanut butter jelly dance bannana! It cracks me up!
it took me so long to find that.. i didn't have an avatar for the longest time..but then i saw the gif of it i laugh as well. There is another one that moves around in a lil square like the website...hehe
djkatscan
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Its so funny!
kdelace
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I really wasnt that bad when my fi left for his four day excursion in new orleans. I kept busy.. I shopped, hung out with the girls and got things done off my things to do list. He called a few times over the weekend. And he told me about his weekend. I really wasnt as bad as I thought. HE told me they took him to a strip club and that he didnt like it so he left for the casino!!!
Leoane
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you will be ok if you truly love he and trust and you know he won't do nothing he won't are you having a party with naked men? i think he probaly feel the same
djkatscan
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I really dont want a bachlorette party either. Sticking my hard earned $$% down some guys g string? I told my FH and he says 'oh you have money? I'll buy a g string!' It does not appeal to me. I'm not a big drinker either, so getting all drunk is not appealing either. My SIL is asking what we are gonna do and she's pretty wild though...
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I'll admit, it's a bit of an issue for me, but I'm trying not to think about it. My prespective is a little different, because I've seen bachelor parties in action (don't ask!), and some are not the innocent fun guys will have you believe! I've seen things that make my hair curl! Why a man needs to celebrate his impending marriage by being around naked girls is beyond me. But I understand it is a right of passage, and also I would never tell FI what he can and cannot do. I won't be having a rowdy bachelorette party. No interest really!
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My party is not going to be with strippers. A few close friends and my BP are going out to dinner and a comedy club, maybe coffee afterwards. That is the extent of it. My Fh married friends have been talking about his party for 2 years now, it is weird the married ones all they think about is seeing strippers. Do not get me wrong,, I trust FH 110%, but it is just making me so anxious. Thank you all for answering me and calming me down.
