Is it weird/wrong to request to my BM's that I don't want a bachlorette party? I'm not a drinker and don't go out to bars/clubs normally and don't really care to do it for a bachlorette party. Plus I feel bad expecting friends to spend money for a party when they are already spendning so much to be a part of the wedding.
you can definitely express what you want and don't want to them. Instead of doing the whole bar crawl/night club thing, have you thought of maybe doing a spa day?
no... but you dont have to drink... you could just have your bms over for dinner & movies... or something like that
I would just talk to them about it. If they really want to do something I would say a SPA day or a trip to the salon for Mani/Pedi....something fun but not that expensive.
i agree you dont have to go for the night out thing but i do think its important to spend time with them before the wedding
