bachlorette party drama

Hey girls, how come i feel like i am the only bride with all this drama. My dream wedding is turning into a nightmare> so my moh asks me what is up with one of the bridesmaids because she isnt getting any response back from her. Keep in mind that i am getting marrried in 58 days and they still have this worked out. This individual is supposed to be planning my bachlorette party since she is my party girl ( the one that i am always going out drinking with and all) well long story short she hasnt communicated to anybody what her ideas are and when the date is. She said she wants it to be a surprize.. which MOH let out of bag was going to be april 28th because that the only day she has free i suppose. i dont know what to do. Should i just plan my own? I asked this bm what was wrong and she said that my wedding is stressing her out and she doesnt care anymore. Meanwhile she hasnt helped with anything. i dont want my wedding to stress anyone out. Im in a depressed mood lately and now this doesn't help matters. Sorry so long just needed to let it all out.

omg im sooooooo sorry that this is happening....i totally understand....when ur working with all these different women with all these different schedules its ridiculous to get everyone on the same page but they should know that they have to put all else aside for u for three days the shower, the bachelorette party and the day of and thats that!

I think the bachelorette party is somethng that you can plan on your own and should not be stressed over...

My friend told me about this mexican restaurant called Tortilla Flats in the city...it has a set price for dinner and sangria...you and your girls could go out there and then to a bar or two after...low key, relaxing, fun!

First of all......

Second of all.....DON'T Stress out!!!!!

I don't see anything wrong with planning your party with your girls. Why not!!!! I mean, the party is for you anyways,......this way, you get to pick what you want to do!!!! I think it would be fun!

I've given LOTS of input into my bach party and I'm glad I did. I want some parts to be a surprise, but I also wanted a say in other areas.......

It will all work out.......