bachlorette party questions update with question.. last reply

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Posted by ttdiff11

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Posted by melcc83

Ok well heres my dilema.... I want to go to 80s prom and party at webster hall after.. but then Im like do I want a to go to a strip club to?? Ive never been to one girls please help is it worth going to a strip club or woupld I be better off not going ??

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we went to a strip club for my friends bach party last april, i hated it!! lol, i told my friends i def dont wanna do that lol, but everyone is different. i rather go out dancing.

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can you tell me why you hated it?

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Posted by melcc83

Ok well heres my dilema.... I want to go to 80s prom and party at webster hall after.. but then Im like do I want a to go to a strip club to?? Ive never been to one girls please help is it worth going to a strip club or woupld I be better off not going ??

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I actually accidentally went to a strip club at one of my friends bach parties... it was pouring rain and the club we were trying to get into wasn't open yet, so we opened the back door of what we thought was a bar and it was a strip club.

It's worth it to go just bc we laughed our a$$es off... but if I actually had to go near any of the guys I would have been way grossed out and super embarrassed. haha

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Posted by melcc83

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Posted by ttdiff11

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Posted by melcc83

Ok well heres my dilema.... I want to go to 80s prom and party at webster hall after.. but then Im like do I want a to go to a strip club to?? Ive never been to one girls please help is it worth going to a strip club or woupld I be better off not going ??

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we went to a strip club for my friends bach party last april, i hated it!! lol, i told my friends i def dont wanna do that lol, but everyone is different. i rather go out dancing.

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can you tell me why you hated it?

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bc when it comes to stuff like that im much more shy lol, my friends got lap dances and the guys are sweaty and gross lol, they also tried to touch alot of my friends and some did, even if they were like um no lol. they also ask the bachelorette to come on stage and there were like 8 guys on my friend, i would have cried lol.

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Posted by fonz616

I think the Joshua Tree is a bar that plays 80's music in NYC...been there a few times and it was fun...

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THATS IT!!!!!! Thanks! It was driving me crazy that I couldnt think of the name!

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Posted by melcc83

Ok well heres my dilema.... I want to go to 80s prom and party at webster hall after.. but then Im like do I want a to go to a strip club to?? Ive never been to one girls please help is it worth going to a strip club or woupld I be better off not going ??

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I've been to strip clubs a couple of times. I always had fun. I think its funny more than anything else.Its totally up to you! Two very different things!

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Posted by melcc83

I saw picsof it online it looked insane lol

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Oh it was. I was the one hiding in the back of the club! LOL...Im just way too shy for that but my cousin had the best time. Then when the club opened up everyone got to dance and enjoy themselves. It was def worth it!

Try this website. They are bachlorette party planners. They collect the money from the girls so you or MOH sdoes not have to lay out cash. and there are so many different packages. bachlorette experts

We are probably doing the wineries during the day, a nice dinner, and maybe a lounge type bar at night. We've got our eye on the pink mini cooper limo lol. Def no strippers, ugh, I think everyone here has enough insight into my personality to imagine how THAT would go down.

I'm not doing a real bachelorette party - it's not my thing. However, my best friends and I spend a weekend in NYC together every year. We meet on a Saturday morning, have bloody mary's, go to Bliss Spa for the day, then back to the hotel, more wine is consumed, then out for dinner and maybe a bar or 2 then back to the hotel for more wine and chatting. Then Sunday morning, brunch with more bloody mary's, a little shopping and everyone heads home.

This year, we're adding Friday night to the mix. Going to see a show Friday night (they won't tell me which one), and the rest of our usual weekend.

A suite at the Waldorf + a day at Bliss = HEAVEN!!!

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Posted by geegee827

I'm not doing a real bachelorette party - it's not my thing. However, my best friends and I spend a weekend in NYC together every year. We meet on a Saturday morning, have bloody mary's, go to Bliss Spa for the day, then back to the hotel, more wine is consumed, then out for dinner and maybe a bar or 2 then back to the hotel for more wine and chatting. Then Sunday morning, brunch with more bloody mary's, a little shopping and everyone heads home.

This year, we're adding Friday night to the mix. Going to see a show Friday night (they won't tell me which one), and the rest of our usual weekend.

A suite at the Waldorf + a day at Bliss = HEAVEN!!!

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That sounds awesome!

would u think about doing a trip one? i told my sister (MOH) that i wanted one away, somewhere where i wouldnt be able to think about the wedding for an entire weekend and i could just relax all weekend! i told her my only requests were a beach for day time, all inclusive and a nightlife for the girls at night. Though i wasnt supposed to know, one BM told me the price. Im not sure where we r going or when, i dont know any of the info, but im guessing like Acaulpoco or Cancun or Bahamas or something cuz the price is very high. Its 900 per person (minus me, they are paying for me). we are going for 4 days 3 nights. My sister emailed the bridal party to check if they had other ideas for cheaper that was away, like a cruise i think, but i think only 2 girls had a prob. She asked me for a list of girls i would want there, and i gave her a list of about 20 girls. so shes taking care of it all.

Just make sure the girls u want there are given enough time to save up the money to go!

I know i went on one last year to puerto rico, we stayed at an all inclusive resort on the beach and were given an option of taking the same flight as the bride, or finding our own cheaper flight and meeting in puerto rico at the hotel. My flight was the same as the brides and was 340 round trip. The rooms were 100 total per girl becuse we shared 4 girls to a room. the only addition would have been for th all inclusive per girl, but the bridal party paid that! we just paid for alcohol, water sports and any extras we wanted.


let me know if u want ideas or to get in touch with my sister to have her give u the info she found on tons of places! i kn0w cruises are a big hit for 3 nights

GOOD LUCK! (ps! tell ur MOH to do this!!! u dont need to plan ur own! it should be a surprise!!!!!!)