Back from my Shower!!

Original post by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

May 02, 2009 04:54 PM

Chaotic is pretty much the only word that springs to mind... I wish someone had better managed the time bc I felt so rushed to open gifts and tons of people were leaving... Everyone I talked to says it was nice, but I somehow didnt feel that way... I dunno... I got pulled in every which way... Half my bp left early and really didnt help with much... Thank god for my MOH and our past liweds girl Maureen. Seemed to be the only ones really helping out So i left feeling a bit annoyed (one BM was acting highly inappropriately, shoving lingerie in my FFIL's face and practically kissing me on the lips and acting like a fool when she had to say like 2 sentences at the beginning of the shower... I dunno if she was drunk, high, or what)

I'm so grateful for all the generousity of our families and friends, but lots of things didnt sit well with me... And if this is a glimpse of how the wedding day will be, I'll go elope...

ETA: I'm not at all looking for a pity party... Just needed to vent

xosweetiexo Posted: May 03, 2009 12:11 AM

Re: Back from my Shower!!

Oh nooooooo Gina Im so sorry you didnt enjoy your bridal shower

I dont know how I'd feel about this particular BM making a speech at my wedding if she was being inappropriate at my shower Maybe have someone in your family read what she is writing to make sure its appropriate for a wedding?

Im happy that you got a lot of things at your shower... do you have pics?

IrishBrideASmiling Posted: May 03, 2009 12:15 AM

Re: Back from my Shower!!

Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

I know what you mean. I felt rushed at my shower bc my sister brought me there late and every time I started talking to someone, I got pulled in like 20 directions. I cant even remember eating.

Oh and for the BM issue, I had one of my BM call me the next day and vent to me that she spent way too much money on the shower and she couldnt afford to buy me a shower gift I was panicing over it so I made my sis, my MOH tell me how much it cost per BM and it really wasnt that much. It made me feel like cr@p and guilty for even having a shower.

Just wait til your BM gets married and embarrass the hell out of her then

Yes, very rushed... I think i was more upset that I wasnt actually able to open up alot of the gifts while the guests were still there and be able to say thank you at that very moment ya know? Its so funny, im sooo used to running things myself that there was like a million things that I felt could have been handled differently.. I didnt want to have to tell my bridal party what they should be doing but when no one is helping out, and my poor MOH is stressed out, then thats my only choice... Oh yea and apparently I spoke to that inappropriate BM when I got home, and she added that shes making a speech at the wedding... which makes me shes been writing it... lol .... i need to be really drunk at the wedding or something

Wait why is she writing a speech? Maybe you can tell her that you had mentioned it to your MOH and she didnt like the idea and felt like it was going to steal her thunder. If that doesnt work, just tell the DJ to NEVER EVER give that BM a mic!!!!!!!!!!!