Back to Planning....

I've finally finished school and graduated last week!!! I've been putting off all the little things that need to be done. Sooooo... I need some help ...please!!!

Can anyone recommend their:

Day of Coordinator?
Place to find veil and head piece (i haven't decided what I was going to do with my hair yet)?
Shuttle bus for hotel to reception?

Does anyone have ideas for favors? We were going to make a donation to the Leukemia and Lymphoma society in honor of my father, but I wanted to put something on the table for guests also...

I feel like I'm missing so much but don't know where to begin. At least these are the things my mother keeps asking me about... Guess I need to start somewhere!

Thank you all!!!