FH and I are fighting so bad. I am so frustrated I don't think I've ever been this mad at him. I feel like I don't get any help around the house. and then when he does do something good I'm supposed to kiss his feet. I want to kill him. seriously. I could picture myself just beating the crap out of him!
Kerri Lynn
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hugs for you
RitasEngaged
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I am sorry
I actually feel that way about fh too sometimes - like i could really strangle him to death
jussie82
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I am sorry...i think boys are just dense sometimes about how much we do around the apartment..fh and i both have full time jobs but i just do more...after i got surgery i could not lift or clean anything for a few weeks and i think then he finally realized all the little things i do to keep our place clean
He doesn't care if its clean. I swear he would be living up to his knees in filth if I didn't clean up. But when he lived with his roomates he was the only one who did any cleaning and would complain when they made a mess. We even worked out a list of responsiblities that each of us would agree to take care of and that hasn't even worked. I'm so mad and angry and upset...
jayepyt
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i feel like that about fh a lot but it will get better
regy_k
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OMG i feel the same about my FH. sometimes he can be so freakin' selfish and insensitive. the most annoying part is that he realizes what an a-ss he's being and starts apologizing for an hour. can't he save out both the nerves and just NOT do it?????
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I'm sure you've already talked to him about how you feel, but have you tried really telling him that you NEED his help? I know when I'm upset with something FH is or isn't doing, he listens better when I say 'I really need your help here.'
It sounds more like you're asking instead of demanding. Just a thought.
grrulz
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i hope you guys made up already!
stinenandy2010
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Hugs!!
Don't worry we have all been there!
Jna2010
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weddings cause a lot of stress on people, me and fh havent spoken since monday lol can we say stubborn much?
JillandJoe
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i feel ur pain!! My FH is the same way, he finally takes out the trash and im supposed to throw him a party to celebrate
MayBride2010
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Posted by Lsorrent
I'm sure you've already talked to him about how you feel, but have you tried really telling him that you NEED his help? I know when I'm upset with something FH is or isn't doing, he listens better when I say 'I really need your help here.'
It sounds more like you're asking instead of demanding. Just a thought.
Agreed. I am so sorry to hear this! Things will work out
