Bad day :( **** Update****

Today was a bad day of fighting with the FH today, I called off the wedding and my parents got involved. And it came to the point where my dad was crying not to leave my FH but I'm so hurt. I don't know how to get passed this. I just need some hugs & therapy.
I feel like I have been hit by a truck.

**** THANK YOU SO MUCH EVERYONE*******
I will give u a full update in a few. Things are getting better.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoThank you so much everyone. Yesterday I checked his phone and there was a message from a girl I have no idea who it was. And according to the message seems like major flirting was going on and could have been a meeting of the 2 or a plan to meet. I was soooo bad yesterday. He will not admit to it and that is what pi s s i ng me off even more.
If I had the truth we can work on fixing our situation but if he is going to lie we can't fix that. And honestly not knowing the truth is making me even more upset. He claims it was a wrong number I don't believe that, and it seems if she is a coworker. I told him when the truth comes out
( you know it always does) things are going to be even worse.
In my opinion I really don't care anymore about our relationship I will go through this wedding and I am sure we will wind up getting divorced if he doesn't change. Of course he is being Mr. Nice guy and wants to be the perfect 'husband'. WHATEVER. I wish I didn't have to go trough this.

Do you still feel that way or has the fight blown over?

Sorry to hear about your bad day!

Not sure what the fight was about but
Wedding planning can be extremely stressful but hopefully giving each other some space helps

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Posted by Tori9299

Today was a bad day of fighting with the FH today, I called off the wedding and my parents got involved. And it came to the point where my dad was crying not to leave my FH but I'm so hurt. I don't know how to get passed this. I just need some hugs & therapy.
I feel like I have been hit by a truck.

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Oh my goodness...I am so sorry to hear this...how are things now?

i hope everything will get better if you neeed to talk im here

oh my goodness is everything ok?????????

That's awful! Give eachother some space and let things settle. See how u feel after you get some sleep.

OH NO!!!!! HUGS! Hopefully things will blowover. Sometimes the stress of planning makes people crazy!

Oh NO!!! What happened??? Is this it? Did you really call it off or are you just really hurt? I hope you are ok.

OH nooooooo !!!! Let it cool down... give a lil time when you 2 can discuss things with a clear head... Fh & I got into one of those fights months ago but it blew over and we actually found out more about one another and made the rel better.... I dunno what the fight was about but i wish you all the best in resolving it and moving foward

i'm sorry... let things calm down. Mike and I had a few huge fights and almost called things off too. I think it's part of wedding stress. did something happen?

I hope you can work things out.

omg i'm so sorry to hear that! i really hope that you guys can come to a resolution. we're all here for you!

awww i'm so sorry to hear about your fight!! I hope things will blow over and everything will be ok...sending hugs ur way

Oh no Tori! Just seeing pictures of the two of you - you both look so calm and in love. I'm sure everything will work itself out. We're all here for you either way!

give yourself a minute or two to think about things...me and FH fight and I call off the wedding all the time!

i hope that you are doing better right now.

's for you
Relax and take time for yourself

whatever you decided should be the best decision for you