bad feeling (update & another question!)

i have to start by saying that i love how the world revolves around facebook & myspace.

but on to the matter at hand, i agree with the only reason one would change an engaged status would be because they are no longer engaged. i think you need to wait until tomorrow to see what she says.

best advice i can give is to be supportive no matter what she says.

no... thats not a crazy thing to think. i would have done the same thing. I know i am on facebook now more then myspace so i dont update it a lot.

Do you know for sure that she ever listed her status as engaged on FB? It seems odd that she would have removed it from FB, but left it on Myspace.

If she does have bad news to share with you, just do your best to be supportive. You'll find the right words.

omg i hope everything is ok .. its hard to react to information like that .. like what do u say !! I hope its not that so ur not in that wierd position ..

But if it is that .. I know u will give good advice and be a great friend to her in the time of need

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Posted by Reymiliz

i would call her ... a bit more personal just say hey are you ok .. i saw your status i just wanted to know what was up ... and if its not tru then make her aware of it ..

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I agree with this...

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Posted by KRISTIND

u cant change it either way so just be there, but i wouldnt ask her to be in ur wedding the day she tells u she called off hers (not sure if thats when u where doing it but u mentioned u hadnt asked her yet)

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ITA, and I wouldn't try and find out earlier just be there and listen to her. If you pry to find out sooner she might get werid about it, I know I would.

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Posted by soontobecruz

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Posted by KRISTIND

u cant change it either way so just be there, but i wouldnt ask her to be in ur wedding the day she tells u she called off hers (not sure if thats when u where doing it but u mentioned u hadnt asked her yet)

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ITA, and I wouldn't try and find out earlier just be there and listen to her. If you pry to find out sooner she might get werid about it, I know I would.

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yay but if sh changed her status its because she wants ppl to know .. and i know if i had a good friend and i know they saw it and didnt call me i would feel really bad ... kind of like they arent there for me ..JMo

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Posted by Reymiliz

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Posted by soontobecruz

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Posted by KRISTIND

u cant change it either way so just be there, but i wouldnt ask her to be in ur wedding the day she tells u she called off hers (not sure if thats when u where doing it but u mentioned u hadnt asked her yet)

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ITA, and I wouldn't try and find out earlier just be there and listen to her. If you pry to find out sooner she might get werid about it, I know I would.

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yay but if sh changed her status its because she wants ppl to know .. and i know if i had a good friend and i know they saw it and didnt call me i would feel really bad ... kind of like they arent there for me ..JMo

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ETA .. I just rereas what u said over and i do understand what u mean about the prying

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Posted by Jna2010

honestly i would wait, maybe shes asking a nunch of her friends over to tell them all at once rather then re-living the whole ordeal over and over, just let her tell you when shes ready and planning to, jmo

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hmm didnt think of that

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Posted by christine2010

with your new updated info maybe you should call her right away. as soon as you are home instead of waiting until tomorrow. i completely forgot that it will show up on everyones wall.

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i hate that about FB