Bathroom Attendants... what do you think of them??
cjb88
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I went to a wedding last night that had bathroom attendants in the bathroom... and it just made me think...If you had the choice as to whether to have them or not would you???
I dont think I would...
If I was ever not feeling well, i dont think i would feel comfortable going to the bathroom with a person just chilling on the other side not doing anything but listening... i hate when people listen when i am going to the bathroom just in general...
then they have a tip jar out there... why do you have to tip someone for just cleaning the bathroom... what service are they providing you... FH said in the men's b-room the guy was turning the water on for everyone... I think i can turn the water on myself thank you...
just a thought i had...
glinda_goodwitch
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My mom actually wants to pay Jericho Terrace the amount of money the attendats would get in a night with tips so that they don't leave a tip jar out. She doesn't want any of the guests to feel obligated to leave a tip. I thought that was nice of her, and I totally didn't think of that option.
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Posted by glinda_goodwitch
My mom actually wants to pay Jericho Terrace the amount of money the attendats would get in a night with tips so that they don't leave a tip jar out. She doesn't want any of the guests to feel obligated to leave a tip. I thought that was nice of her, and I totally didn't think of that option.
We have Bathroom Attendants at FT too... and I'm not really into it. I agree. I really don't want someone chilling there if I get 'sick' and I don't want a tip jar. If I see it, I'll go nuts.
Jennie0898
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I've never really given it any thought. Hmmm..
july06bride
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I do not want it, for the same reasons as above... but i dont even know if EW has it
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Posted by cjb88
I went to a wedding last night that had bathroom attendants in the bathroom... and it just made me think...If you had the choice as to whether to have them or not would you???
I dont think I would...
If I was ever not feeling well, i dont think i would feel comfortable going to the bathroom with a person just chilling on the other side not doing anything but listening... i hate when people listen when i am going to the bathroom just in general...
then they have a tip jar out there... why do you have to tip someone for just cleaning the bathroom... what service are they providing you... FH said in the men's b-room the guy was turning the water on for everyone... I think i can turn the water on myself thank you...
just a thought i had...
cort- do we have to have one at HWC? i hope not! i hate the tip thing! makes me nuts! i would think barbara would not be into it as well
cjb88
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Posted by cjb88
I went to a wedding last night that had bathroom attendants in the bathroom... and it just made me think...If you had the choice as to whether to have them or not would you???
I dont think I would...
If I was ever not feeling well, i dont think i would feel comfortable going to the bathroom with a person just chilling on the other side not doing anything but listening... i hate when people listen when i am going to the bathroom just in general...
then they have a tip jar out there... why do you have to tip someone for just cleaning the bathroom... what service are they providing you... FH said in the men's b-room the guy was turning the water on for everyone... I think i can turn the water on myself thank you...
just a thought i had...
cort- do we have to have one at HWC? i hope not! i hate the tip thing! makes me nuts! i would think barbara would not be into it as well
Im not sure... i was just wondering the same thing and was goign to ask you!!! hmm... i think i would request NOT to have one if there was to be one...
Blu-ize
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Can you ask your hall not to have an attendant?
mtdr1106
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Posted by glinda_goodwitch
My mom actually wants to pay Jericho Terrace the amount of money the attendats would get in a night with tips so that they don't leave a tip jar out. She doesn't want any of the guests to feel obligated to leave a tip. I thought that was nice of her, and I totally didn't think of that option.
GOOD IDEA!! its always so akward - do i give the dollar? do i have a dollar? i left a tip last time i was in here - do i do it again? am i cheap? very stressful and all i wanted to do was go to the bathroom quick.
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i don't like them. If I can't figure out what I came in there to do - I certainly don't think some non-descript woman with a hand towel is going to be able to help me!
cindyandkevin
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I hate it when there's an attendant. Like someone else said, I can turn the water on myself thank you very much!! Why do I now have to give you a dollar for that??? I'm not cheap, I'm practical.
I've been washing my hands all my life, it's not like one night I'm gonna forget how to do it and need someone to help me!!
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Posted by cindyandkevin
I hate it when there's an attendant. Like someone else said, I can turn the water on myself thank you very much!! Why do I now have to give you a dollar for that??? I'm not cheap, I'm practical.
I've been washing my hands all my life, it's not like one night I'm gonna forget how to do it and need someone to help me!!
I second that..I hate attendants. I always feel like I HAVE to tip just for handing me a paper towel. UGH! No Attendants!
MissingTheBGene
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They definitely make me feel uncomfortable. I'm not sure if my hall provides this but if they do, I probably will tip them beforehand as I wouldn't want my guests to feel obligated.
KarAnthony
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I can't stand having a bathroom attendant. I hear you about having someone listen. Then they stare at you as you freshen up and then I always feel stupid not tipping.
Could you imagine that as your job, standing in a BR all night??!!
Jen2999
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The worst is when you go to bars and there is one... UGH
The always hand you the paper towels...I dont need to you to do that.. thanks anyway LOL
johnsae
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I cannot stand bathroom attendants - in fact, I have been known to get into altercations with them at bars/club (god forbid i spray my hair with the hairspray and I don't tip them!).
Capitale includes bathroom attendants and I have specifically requested that they are not there - I just have huge issues with them - I want to be able to take my time in the bathroom, and I always feel rushed and stared at by the bathroom attendants...I don't want my guests to feel the same way. I think they can get their own paper towels :)
kellwolfe
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I would rather have one - esp. if its a hall that has more then one wedding at a time - esp in the ladies room -
but i think that the tip jar is rude at a wedding -
Goldi1021
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I like them. I do not like tip jars or baskets and my caterer forbids them. Thats why there is a gratuity tacked on to the bill.
cjb88
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Posted by KarAnthony
Could you imagine that as your job, standing in a BR all night??!!
OMG!!! I would SOOO HATE that job!!! and what if it got smelly in there do you still have to stand there the whole time with a straight face???
Beth1210
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If I was at a wedding I would expect them- but I wouldn't expect them to have a tip jar- I think that is tacky
and the reason I normally tip them at a club/bar is b/c they pay for that stuff themselves- and they don't make any money except for tips- it's a really crappy job- no pun intended