BE HONEST

If I don't like something I don't post. I know awhile back there was a post about 'if noone posts negative things noone knows the truth', however I think if you really like it- go for it.. who cares.. Negative comments only bring a person down and I don't think that's why we're here..

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Posted by D's Girl

I am always honest, but if I don't like someone's jewelry, tiara, dress, etc... who am I to judge their taste you know? I can say 'It's not my style, but if you love it.....' I would never flat out say 'Hate it'. I am sure you get the point.

I know we all value each other's opinion and I am not here to make someone feel they made the wrong decision or choice, especially if they picked that item for the biggest day of their lives.

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I agree, you have to be honest but not hurtful.

Im honest, I would rather someone say its awful now than let me go and buy it and find out from someone else when the damage is done that its awful.

Sometimes I wont post or I dont see the thread like Athena said, if they ask for an opinion than I will give them my honest opinion.

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Posted by D's Girl

I am always honest, but if I don't like someone's jewelry, tiara, dress, etc... who am I to judge their taste you know? I can say 'It's not my style, but if you love it.....' I would never flat out say 'Hate it'. I am sure you get the point.

I know we all value each other's opinion and I am not here to make someone feel they made the wrong decision or choice, especially if they picked that item for the biggest day of their lives.

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Ditto! Nicely put!

I am honest.... If I like it I like it ~ if I LOVE it ~ I loveeeee it ~ If I do not like something I might say it is not my style or if I really don't like something I would definately tell! & I would want everyone to tell me as well!

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Posted by D's Girl

I am always honest, but if I don't like someone's jewelry, tiara, dress, etc... who am I to judge their taste you know? I can say 'It's not my style, but if you love it.....' I would never flat out say 'Hate it'. I am sure you get the point.

I know we all value each other's opinion and I am not here to make someone feel they made the wrong decision or choice, especially if they picked that item for the biggest day of their lives.

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I agree & I do the same thing I won't post if it is something that I really don't care for! (because everyone's style is so different) Usually I like/LOVE everything though...

I am not gonna to someone looking for feedback.

If I totally like it, I will say so. If I like it but think there is something about it that can be changed, I will say my thoughts, with a 'JMO'. If I don't like it at all, I will not post and just give my opinion on the poll (if there is one included).

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Posted by JazzyT

If I don tlike something I just do not post about it,there is a better way to say you donr likr it than to publicly ridicule but if I like i post.

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I agree. If I don't like, I may not post.

If I think its something that warrants a beyond honest opinion, for example something horrendous, I FM instead of post.

But I also know...like when it comes to china....people have different tastes. And I can appreciate that. I can appreciate different taste, even if its not mine. So if I believe its nice, but may not be for me, I still may commend them on it.

I think most of us are on the same wave length. We tend to ignore those posts that we really dislike.

I too tend not to post when opinions are asked about things and it's not my taste because I too think we're all different and entitled to different opinions. However, I do try posting when brides are asking opinions about hair and makeup bcause I feel we can help them a lot with our honest opinions.

It's very easy to see how many people look at the thread and how many actually post. That should tell us something.

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Posted by Nina

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Posted by JazzyT

If I don tlike something I just do not post about it,there is a better way to say you donr likr it than to publicly ridicule but if I like i post.

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I agree. If I don't like, I may not post.

If I think its something that warrants a beyond honest opinion, for example something horrendous, I FM instead of post.

But I also know...like when it comes to china....people have different tastes. And I can appreciate that. I can appreciate different taste, even if its not mine. So if I believe its nice, but may not be for me, I still may commend them on it.

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My thoughts exactly!

Hi Jill! I think most girls are honest...someone posted that they didn't like my cake topper.

Usually, if I don't like something I won't respond at all. But if I do, its with an honest answer

I am ALWAYS very honest, IF the bride asks 'honest opinions please'

If someone says.. this is my dress, i absolutely LOOVVEEE it, and I think its ug, I just don't post.

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Posted by Athee07

i only post when i mean it- if i dont like something i dont post (either that or i dont see the thread )
theres no point in lying saying that I love something that I dont . However if someone asks for an honest opinion and is ready to handle critism Im more than happy posting my true opinion. I just want to help out brides not bash what they choose for their weddings

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Me too. If I don't have anything nice to say, I say nothing.