Be honest..

cmjd Posted: Apr 26, 2008 09:17 AM

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Anyone fighting alot with FH or is it just me? Its making me very sad.

Maria31 Posted: Apr 26, 2008 09:21 AM

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No, it's definitley not just you... FH and I have been bickering so much lately! The stress of the wedding and buying a house is just getting to us. Once all of the madness comes to an end, everything will go back to normal! You are definitely not alone!!

cmjd Posted: Apr 26, 2008 09:22 AM

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Posted by Maria31

No, it's definitley not just you... FH and I have been bickering so much lately! The stress of the wedding and buying a house is just getting to us. Once all of the madness comes to an end, everything will go back to normal! You are definitely not alone!!

Thank you!

Maria31 Posted: Apr 26, 2008 09:26 AM

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Posted by cmjd

Posted by Maria31

No, it's definitley not just you... FH and I have been bickering so much lately! The stress of the wedding and buying a house is just getting to us. Once all of the madness comes to an end, everything will go back to normal! You are definitely not alone!!

Thank you!

You're very welcome!!
It's comforting to know that other people are going through the same thing...

angl2001 Posted: Apr 26, 2008 09:28 AM

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more bickering than actual fighting....hes just being lazy and he is sucj a procastinatior!! i wass kick him in the shins !!!!!!

Jonas9281 Posted: Apr 26, 2008 09:29 AM

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yes! i told him to go out with his friends last night ( we haven't not spent a second together in forever, and i think we needed to)...and that definitely helped...we've been just so stressed with the wedding and the house (it really all comes down to money ) We don't really fight fight, but it's been little snide remarks and bickering, and i hate it!!!

Jonas9281 Posted: Apr 26, 2008 09:29 AM

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Posted by angl2001

more bickering than actual fighting....hes just being lazy and he is sucj a procastinatior!! i wass kick him in the shins !!!!!!

melissaMPA Posted: Apr 26, 2008 09:40 AM

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It happens... I've been there too. I have to say it has been really good for the past few months no fights, but in the beginning of the planning we would fight all the time and $ was always a big factor. We also bought a townhouse together this year so money has been on the brain for so long...

I bet we may start bickering when the wedding gets closer

bensgirl Posted: Apr 26, 2008 10:24 AM

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Posted by cmjd

Anyone fighting alot with FH or is it just me? Its making me very sad.

we fight waaaay more than usual...the stress of planning has definitely been hard on us. we've vowed that for one month after the wedding we won't 'plan' anything....we'll just have dates, hang out with friends and veg at home! no worries...you are not alone!!

cmjd Posted: Apr 26, 2008 10:28 AM

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Posted by bensgirl

Posted by cmjd

Anyone fighting alot with FH or is it just me? Its making me very sad.

we fight waaaay more than usual...the stress of planning has definitely been hard on us. we've vowed that for one month after the wedding we won't 'plan' anything....we'll just have dates, hang out with friends and veg at home! no worries...you are not alone!!

I feel alot better now. I guess its normal stress. Paying a mortgage, paying for and planning a wedding, full time jobs, a dog and a house to take care of - its just so overwhelming. Thanks ladies for all your comforting words.

DavaDay Posted: Apr 26, 2008 10:34 AM

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All the time. And it's not bickering, it's big fights. We live together, and I think it's just stress, but when he does something that annoys me, I think to myself, 'I have to live with THIS for the next 50 years?' and I blow up at him. Poor guy, he never sees it coming.

We've talked about it though, and about how we're both stressed and nervous, and I think that helps these fights not turn from 'big' to 'major'. Talking about it really helps.

Glad to see I'm not the only one!

Randilotus Posted: Apr 26, 2008 10:36 AM

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Past few weeks, but we are finally over that bump!

FtrMrsV Posted: Apr 26, 2008 10:37 AM

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Ever since we started planning for the wedding, we started arguing over the dumbest things. But the stress of the wedding brings the worst out of us. Don't worry everything will be fine.

LCnAC Posted: Apr 26, 2008 10:39 AM

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Yes..which is why I am going to Turks and Caicos next week with 6 of my girlfriends and he is staying home lol

MrsJ08 Posted: Apr 26, 2008 11:20 AM

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Yessss!!! We never fight but now its over wedding crap! I have found him to be very sensitive over things like, invitation wordings, favors, etc... lately my patience has been short, its all stress related I think!

AmorPeruano Posted: Apr 26, 2008 11:55 AM

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Awwwwwe, its OKAY, its gonna pass, I promise!!

Nicky0503 Posted: Apr 26, 2008 12:45 PM

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My Fh and I never fought and we are together almost 8 years, Now that we are planning the wedding he is so irritated and gets upset whenever wedding stuff comes up. And we definitely fight about the dumbest things. I thought I was all alone. It's like a chain reaction I bring up wedding planning and for some reason he gets iritated then I think he doesn't want to marry me then I get upset then he gets mad. So a few weeks ago I finally figured out that the planning is getting him super nervous so I kinda don't ask him anything unless its really important.

AndRecKy Posted: Apr 26, 2008 12:51 PM

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my fiance just got home from a week in europe and we got into a huge fight the minute he got off the plane

its defintely not easy right now

ValnChris Posted: Apr 26, 2008 12:59 PM

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We live together and I'd say on average ( lately) only sleep in the same bed three times a week. I'm on edge doing all this planning mostly by myself because he's too busy with work but it makes me bitter. He's on edge because he's stressed with work and then gets home and i'm in a bad mood. I hate it, can't wait to just get married already!

ValnChris Posted: Apr 26, 2008 01:01 PM

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Posted by DavaDay

All the time. And it's not bickering, it's big fights. We live together, and I think it's just stress, but when he does something that annoys me, I think to myself, 'I have to live with THIS for the next 50 years?' and I blow up at him. Poor guy, he never sees it coming.

We've talked about it though, and about how we're both stressed and nervous, and I think that helps these fights not turn from 'big' to 'major'. Talking about it really helps.

Glad to see I'm not the only one!

OMG , me too!!!

poor Fh's!