It has to be nerves. He has told me how nervous he is for the day of but not the days after. He is very shy and doesn't like attention. My poor baby.
ValnChris
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yeah, I think it's normal
SoonToBeMrsSchombs
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Bickering has become part of our daily routine...and I bite my toung half the time. I think I'm stressed because I feel like all the 'little things' I'm doing, are completly unnoticed by him, and he thinks I'm just 'playing on the computer' all night...not planning our wedding! I do EVERYTHING on the computer, got my hotel blocked, picked my dresses, favors, etc...he just doesnt get it. Oh well, he'll see the day of the wedding how much work I've actually done.
FutureMrsCarrieri
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we go up and down! one day he's my best friend, the next day I hate his guts
SoonToBeMrsScott
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No its not just you I think we are all just going through changes and this whole process is stressful and new so it puts tension in almost every relationship
ValnChris
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Fh and I never fought like this until we got engaged. I think part of it is my fault...I am expecting him to help and to have the same sense of urgency I do for getting things done and that is just SO not his nature. I have to nag him for every little thing ( getting addresses was like pulling teeth)....
It is just a stressful time and I think it's normal for us
cds58019
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FH and I have been fighting soooo much lately. With the wedding coming up soon and getting our house all together, it seems like everyday its something new to fight about. I think everybody goes through this, dont worry!
queenbean
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I think it's stress and I'm totally not being fair to the poor guy. I need to unwind for 30 mins by myself before I come home from work so I don't come home and complain immediately about my day and my co-workers, otherwise I will go on and on all night
I can't wait to start my new job
TheFutureMrsM
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believe it or not, we havnt been fighting at all, and we have so much going on, finishing our house in 6 weeks, planning a wedding, signing the prenup, running the business...i swear he works 7 days a week, maybe thats why we dont fight lol
GinaBambina08
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No, it's not just you! Me and FH have been fighting much more than before and it's getting more intense...nothing too serious, but not as light-hearted as before..I think that's natural, wedding planning is very stressful and puts people on edge
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FH and I don't fight much over the wedding. We had a few arguments over things but not much. It is mostly over my daughter. She spent the last week with us. I know he is strict, that is ok, but he needs to get a grip sometimes. Friday we took my daughter to Great adventure. He drove and I know he was tired. He wanted her to stay awake for the 20 minute ride we had to make and got furious with her for falling alseep. He says it is just a sign of the disrespect she shows me. She is 2 weeks shy of 10 and spent 8 hours in the hot sun on thrill rides. He thinks she should have said she can't instead of saying she isn't . That is the brunt of the disagreements.
