So its 11 days before my wedding and everything is done, everything is organized and ready to go for my wedding day, programs and all!! Last night the best man called and told us that he and his girl friend are not going to be coming or be in the wedding !!!! Thank god l just got my programs reprinted before they closed!! OMG!!! CRAZYYYY stress!!!
bebita0830
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are u serious?!? what reasons did he give?
BlushandBashful
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Omg...WHAT?! Is your FH okay?! That's so upsetting!!
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are u serious?!? what reasons did he give?
^^ Yeah, what was his reason??
Kelli218
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OMG I would have serious heart failure!!!!
corwin
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Omg i know!! My FH was great he told him that is the end of the friendship if he didnt want to be apart of this day. The ex best man's girl friend doesnt like me and has tried to ruin my relationship and some of my wedding .Shes just plain mean. So this is a great break from a negative relationship!! We could not be happier, but now i have to go through everything his name was on and fix it!!! haha omg the stress of 11 day away bride!!!
quirkybride
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Was the fight because you didnt' invite his gf? How long have they been together?
snowflakes11
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WOW!!!! Crazy drama! At least you didn't print the programs lol
People are NUTS! lol
Good luck with everything
corwin
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She i was invited!! Thats the funny part! And his parents are too!! I printed the programs and sent them to the venue already!!! I had to re order new ones with his name not on it! But vistaprint is the best and rushed the order with great discounts!! Thank you everyone!! If this is the worst thing that goes wrong i will be so happy!!!
MNM0805
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Some people can't just be happy for other people! So sorry you are going through this. Weddings definitely bring out the best/worst in people!
JuneBride14
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wow that is unbelievable!!! i give you credit for remaining so positive
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What a B I tch!!!! Anyways, I am glad that you and your FH are ok. I am so happy that your FH put him in his place and that he is not going to be part of your lives. I am so happy for you guys. Good for you!!!!
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wow crazy!!!!!
Glad you were able to reprint in time!
DCgirl82
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WHAT?!?!?! Did he say why?????????????
IrishAli
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Seriously...what was his reason?
That is nuts!
fdnybride163
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your handling this pretty well... i would FLIP THE EFFFFFF out... then rip the guy a new one for listening to his STUPID girlfriend instead of being there for his best friend!
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wow thats terrible but im glad it will work out to yours and fh benefit...you 100% right you dont need negativity around you especially during this time. and he obviously isnt a man and doesnt value the friendship if hes letting her get in the way!
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glad that you are not letting it get to you!
corwin
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Thank you all for the support!! We are so excited for next Saturday!! And now after the whole BM thing i am ready for anything!! :)
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wow i cannot believe that!!!!! i seriously would FLIP!!!!!!!!
But the saddest is i can't believe he would let his GF come between him and your FH. Obv there's a reason he picked him as BM - i'm sure they were close. I guess it just shows how weak he is... because i can tell you right now that all the guys i know (prob with the excpetion of one) would tell their GFs to hit the road if they came between them and their best friend!
