bestman

jenn81502 Posted: Aug 23, 2010 12:57 AM

bestman

Anyone have issues with the bestman?!

I'm having some issues.. way too long to explain but I hate him. Just wondering if anyone else is dealing with the same...

poisonivy918 Posted: Aug 23, 2010 02:36 PM

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years ago when I was engaged to someone else I hated his best man. he was always an a$$ to me for no reason. plus anytime we broke up he said such mean things about me. in the end we broke up and didn't get married. not because of the best man though lol. I'm so happy now though I get along with all fh's friends. then again we don't have any crazy drama like me and my ex did. we are both very mellow calm people. plus my ex used to make up things about me or accuse me of cheating so I don't really blame his friends for hating me with hearing all that bs.

either way you have to just be nice and smile. nothing you can do about it. not everyone gets along. I haven't asked any of my girls yet to be in my bridal party but most of my girls all hate one another! so I am hoping they do the be nice and smile thing lol.

a wedding you sort of have to do that. then you can go back to hating him.

jenn81502 Posted: Aug 23, 2010 03:56 PM

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yeah i've tried and he just keeps being an *******... i don't know what to do cause i know it hurts FH that we don't get along but the best man treats me like garbage. and i can't stand it!

FutureMrsGTL Posted: Aug 23, 2010 04:01 PM

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FH's best friend was supposed to be our best man, fortunately FH decided against it when he showed up 2 hrs late to our eparty.

We get along hes just very irresponsible but I understand having best man probs.. bc even tho hes outta the running.. the rest of his friends are pretty immature too...

allornil Posted: Aug 23, 2010 04:34 PM

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well IMO your FH should stand up to him if he treats you badly. I would NEVER let anyone disrespect my FH.

and I mean no one. Not my parents, friends, coworkers...no one.

FutureMrsGTL Posted: Aug 23, 2010 04:35 PM

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Posted by allornil

well IMO your FH should stand up to him if he treats you badly. I would NEVER let anyone disrespect my FH.

and I mean no one. Not my parents, friends, coworkers...no one.

Good point

jenn81502 Posted: Aug 23, 2010 05:57 PM

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he does but he the best man does it sneaky so FH doesnt see it..

allornil Posted: Aug 23, 2010 06:30 PM

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Posted by jenn81502

he does but he the best man does it sneaky so FH doesnt see it..

You have two options here:

Ignore him

Or call him out on it every time he acta like an azz

Personally i would put my foot down and demand hes gone. This is your bp too

And your FH knows how this guy is. If he disregards that well, he's not adult enough to be a husband imo. Sorry.

Again, allowing anyone to disrespect you is unacceptable.