One of my BM is FH brother's girlfriend. I found out she's been talking to FH ex-girl friend and building a relationship with her. She is having a baby shower for her sister tomorrow and FH and I were ready to go until we found out she invited his ex girlfriend! I don't understand why she would do this to us. This is so disrespectful!!! She's done this to us before and we told her we felt uncomfortable. FH also feels betrayed by his brother because he's been hanging with his ex girl too. too much drama.
I am so pissed off and would rather not have them in the wedding. Do you think I'm wrong? FH is so mad he doesn't want his brother to be his best man anymore his brother knew the whole time FH ex-girlfriend was coming to this baby shower and never told us. His response was sort of like 'Deal with it, you will be seeing her often' I was lost for words.
I'll let FH deal with his brother, but how should I handle the situation with my BM?
jayepyt
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Girl kick her out and let FH deal with his brother. She is not your family; therefore, you have no obligation to her. Fh is the one who has to deal with his brother. If his brother thinks that FH's ex is more important than FH, then he shouldn't have him in the bridal party either.
OMG even I am angry!!!
well said
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she is obviously disrespectful and trying to cause drama!!! tell her off and don't let them ruin your wedding, or even your wedding planning. i was really close with my sister's ex, yet you won't see him at my wedding because my sister is more important, hello!! people are so mean and careless.
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I spoke to FH and he agreed to kick them out. It will take lots of convincing to keep them part of the BP. I already have enough stress planning this wedding and now I need to deal with this sh*t
LatinLady-Bride
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sometimes I wonder if she did that on purpose. I know his ex will do anything to have him back, but that will never happen. So childish!!!
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I spoke to FH and he agreed to kick them out. It will take lots of convincing to keep them part of the BP. I already have enough stress planning this wedding and now I need to deal with this sh*t
Exactly! You have enough to deal with! Cut em' loose! I would be so mad! Let us know what happens! It is so sad that sometimes weddings bring out the worst in people, even in family!
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Girl that sounds like way too much drama. She is completely disrespecting you. She needs to get the boot from the bridal party. Your bridal party is there to help you not cause unwanted stress.
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Wow! this is so wrong on so many levels, that this girl would do something like this to you. She is no friend of yours to do this, it doesn't sound like she cares about your feelings at all. You wanna stay away from people like this. It's up to you but if you don't want her in your BP anymore, then kick her off!!
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LatinLady-Bride
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The problem is that FBIL was never close to FH ex-girlfriend. Even FBIL girlfriend was never close to his ex-girlfriend. All of a sudden once we got engaged, FH ex-girl friend wants to be in the picture. They have been inviting her to every family event the past year and it doesn't make sense why they would invite her. We told them that is disrespectful to us. We've had numerous conversation about his ex-girlfriend. She is full of Drama and now I see FBIL girlfriend must love Drama too. It is so uncomfortable to FH and I to be in the same room with this girl. In many occassions she has tried so hard to get FH attention buy dressing like a **** he is not into her and can't stand her.
I just can't believe I'm dealing with this drama 3 months before my wedding!!!
Thank you girls for the advice
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I don't think you're wrong... I think you have all the right to be upset (and FH).. Thats plain WRONG!!
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Posted by LatinLady-Bride
I spoke to FH and he agreed to kick them out. It will take lots of convincing to keep them part of the BP. I already have enough stress planning this wedding and now I need to deal with this sh*t
Exactly! You have enough to deal with! Cut em' loose! I would be so mad! Let us know what happens! It is so sad that sometimes weddings bring out the worst in people, even in family!