I had a big fight today with FH. Many of you know I have been with him for 18 years already. It is like we are already married. I took the day off today and cleaned all day. Of course, we he came home from work he threw his shoes clothes everywhere decided to make coffee in the coffee maker and did not clean it cooked on the stove did not wipe it there is oil everywhere. i am ready to kill him.... So of course i caught an attitude right away and told him to leave and go to the car show in Bellemore... I feel bad because he is very upset and keeps calling me but I am not picking up the phone. I feel like I am being childish but I do not feel like talking to him right now... So it took me another hour to clean it up and I am finally relaxing now....
SummerBride10
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I'm sorry. That s*cks. I don't blame you for getting mad- I'd be angry too if I spent all day cleaning and my FH just threw his cr@p around with no regard for what I did.
Just remind yourself about the best part of fighting....making up!
TessMike621
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yeah you had a right to be upset because you worked so hard all day cleaning...im sure you FH isn't too mad at you, he probably feels bad thats why he's calling you...hey its a good thing in a way that you blew up on him because chances on he won't do this again! good luck with everything
stinenandy2010
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boys will be boys....just tell him how you feel. I'm sure it will pass
CristinanBen2010
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I would also be angry. After a day of cleaning he should pitch in and clean up after himself. You are not being childish. You should have a talk with him about why your upset
ShannonSoon
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You had the right to get mad. Guys don't understand how much effort it takes into keeping things clean and that makes me soooo mad! I mean no one likes following you around and picking up after you. Let's get real now boys.
