Biggest stress

I thought it might be helpful to those of us who seem to have little tight balls playing ping pongs in our stomachs to share in the misery What is everyone's biggest stressor at this moment when thinking about the wedding?

Mine is quite petty and I know it'll change over time but its the favors. I haven't found the 'perfect symbol' for my guests. I thought I had and then it fell through. Oh and of course, not finding 'the one' dress. It must be playing hide and seek with me!

#1 Hands down anything that had to do with my bridesmaids!!!! Esp. picking the dress!! Drama Drama Drama!!!

#2 Finding a photographer I loved and could afford

#3 FAVORS!

1- Dad/Step-dad

2-Music (band vs. dj, went with dj)

3-Hair/Makeup


ETA:


MONEY MONEY MONEY

1. health of important wedding participants

2. BM dresses

3. Too much to do, not enough time or money!

My #1 stress is most definitely MONEY!

1- Getting to the gym so I can lose 10 pounds before the wedding

2- Waiting to see when my invites come back. I ordered them very early and then needed to have them reprinted. They are printing right now! (after the printer sat on them for over a month and a half, then was freakin' closed for the holidays) and I need them by the end of the week to get to the calligrapher. I have been assured that I will have my envelopes by then (which is all I need at this point) and invites will follow the week after.

not so much Stress,,, but the biggest headache was the Invitations.. it was just sooo involved... but its DONE!!!!

right now, its all the little things- and worrying that im going to forget something accidentally (i tend to have the memory/ attention span of Spit! )... no matter how many lists i have, i always feel like Im forgetting something..



And, actually, (which is very Strange to Me!!!) Im getting nervous about walking down the aisle... like everyones eyes on me, and im clumsy, and so is my dad... so i keep picturing him stepping on my dress, or me tripping on it.... whatever, ill just do a cartwheel and jump back up to my feet but it still worries me a Tad

1# BM dresses. Just found out that they are discontinuing the color I picked out, so unless BM's order them within the next two weeks, I am screwed!

2# invitations- do DIY or not (probably not)

#3- Centerpieces- to make myself or not

#4 FG dresses, to make myself or not.

ugh!

#1 Waiting to find out if one of the groomsmen is STILL going to be a groomsmen since him and the FI are fighting

#2 my mother

#3 Waiting to see who is going to walk me down the aisle

Lack of Money, needing Money and not having Money!

1. Money
2. Still haven't picked my wedding hairstyle!

3. My ceremony before CH!
SO UPSET ABOUT THAT!
AND ALL THEM STARTING LATE!!!!!

My Ceremony 7:30
CH 8-9
and Reception 9 - 2:00 AM!
I really hope people will stay till the end!
I will be so upset there all alone

I don't want a wedding anymore!

Honestly, and I haven't really spoken about anything too personal on here before, but it's the fact that for the first time in my entire life, my sister and I aren't speaking. It's way too long and messed up to explain and sadly, I'm somewhat relieved to have a break right now. However, I have no idea how long this will go on. What if this goes on for months, wedding keeps getting closer, etc.... She is supposed to be my MOH. I don't care if her dress matches or not the day of,that stuff doesn't bother me. I'm not sure if I can get past some of the things she has pulled on my family lately to really want her in that position. It feels very fake to me right now. I hope this changes, but I really have no idea what will happen.

whoa. sorry so long and serious...

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Posted by neeniebean86

not so much Stress,,, but the biggest headache was the Invitations.. it was just sooo involved... but its DONE!!!!

right now, its all the little things- and worrying that im going to forget something accidentally (i tend to have the memory/ attention span of Spit! )... no matter how many lists i have, i always feel like Im forgetting something..



And, actually, (which is very Strange to Me!!!) Im getting nervous about walking down the aisle... like everyones eyes on me, and im clumsy, and so is my dad... so i keep picturing him stepping on my dress, or me tripping on it.... whatever, ill just do a cartwheel and jump back up to my feet but it still worries me a Tad

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i can VISUALIZE THIS...

-money of course!

-family drama (from various members)

-my weight