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cranesgirl25 Posted:

bitter sweet

i love all you girls, you have made me so happy, i just found this website a couple days ago and am addicted already, you know why?? well because although im planning a june 25th 2005 wedding, im already married since june 25th 2004. and since i got married a moved far away from all the people i know and have no one to share wedding stories with, its very sad, to the point where my husband has cried for me, he feels so guilty and bad. but even when i got married at city hall this last june, none of my friends were really happy for me, they were very self involved and so even back then i felt alone, so......... having said all that, although i dont know you all i feel so good being a part of this wonderful thing called the liweddings.com, i think it was God sent. thanks again all!!!
vhollo01 Posted:

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Welcome to our drama.

Where do you live now? - Braddocks - is that on the island?
cranesgirl25 Posted:

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no, i live in jersey and braddocks is in medford nj, the cutest little colonial town, my husband and i just passed the loc. tonight and coincidentally there was a wedding going on tonight. very nice, im happy we picked it. cant wait to come back tomorrow, my husband just peaked in and joked im putting in too many hours, lol. goodnight.
Aga Posted:

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we got married in city hall on august 29, 2000 and are planning a wedding for next year... it is kinda weird because we are married already but I am so excited about it nevertheless
Dooodles Posted:

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Welcome and congrats! I love having so many brides to learn from and ask advice from. Nothing better than having an unlimited supply of resources planning the same thing you are! It's a wonderful bonding experience!

February05 Posted:

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welcome!

i'm sorry to hear about your friends being so unfulfilling!! but, its true, you have your new '05 family right here on LIW

cranesgirl25 Posted:

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oh God, thankyou so much, believe it or not i feel like you guys are friends, im so happy now, every morning i cant wait to log on and see whats new on 05. well today i go to try some dresses on for the first time! im so excited, ofcourse, im going to be alone and thats sad, btw, has anyone tried on dresses alone? and if so, how did you feel??
again, ty lots of hugs..
ckgmwedding Posted:

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Posted by cranesgirl25

oh God, thankyou so much, believe it or not i feel like you guys are friends, im so happy now, every morning i cant wait to log on and see whats new on 05. well today i go to try some dresses on for the first time! im so excited, ofcourse, im going to be alone and thats sad, btw, has anyone tried on dresses alone? and if so, how did you feel??
again, ty lots of hugs..



I live in California and my whole family is in NY. I went to look at dresses on a visit to NY this summer twice with my mom and sister but it wasn't the 'special moment'' I thought it would be. My mom and sister fought the whole day and it was basically ruined. I had to try on dresses alone out here since I had no one to go with. I actually had more fun since the women in the store felt bad for me and tried to make it special. GO and enjoy- sometimes have people along can be a downer!
cranesgirl25 Posted:

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aww ty, that makes me feel better, well i hope i have a good experience today, really looking forward to it!! wish me luck. im on my way now. thanks and see you later.

ckgmwedding Posted:

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Posted by cranesgirl25

aww ty, that makes me feel better, well i hope i have a good experience today, really looking forward to it!! wish me luck. im on my way now. thanks and see you later.



Have a great time!!! I will be thinking of your getting all dewy eyed checking yourself out as a bride. I wish you lived in CA so I could go with you!
Aga Posted:

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Posted by cranesgirl25

aww ty, that makes me feel better, well i hope i have a good experience today, really looking forward to it!! wish me luck. im on my way now. thanks and see you later.



have fun and let us know how it went
Bunnymonkey Posted:

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I have only gone dress shopping alone. As soon as I stopped feeling sorrry for myself, I found it to be very relaxing. I love the idea of finding my dress for me and only me, and not being influenced by others in the decision.

Good luck!
February05 Posted:

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Posted by Bunnymonkey

I have only gone dress shopping alone. As soon as I stopped feeling sorrry for myself, I found it to be very relaxing. I love the idea of finding my dress for me and only me, and not being influenced by others in the decision.

Good luck!



in a way, i had wished that i went by myself. Although it was good to have other opinions, its cool to save the surprise for EVERYONE until the wedding day... i like that hint of mystery
February05 Posted:

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oh, if anyone lives on LI, and doesnt want to go by themselves, i'll go with you!!!! i dont want you to be sad

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