Re: Black tie??
I'm putting it. I want to set the mood for the party.
I'm putting it. I want to set the mood for the party.
I'd only put it if you have a lot of out of town guests. I've been to weddings in New Hampshire where people wore jeans!! You could also put 'formal attire' instead of black tie optional which I think looks a little less snooty. But again, if the majority of people are from NY, no need to put anything.