BLAHHHHHHHHHHHH =\
Don't mind this random rant, but I just need to let it outttt
a few months ago, two of my BM's and I planned a girls night for tonight. One of our friends from upstate is coming down just for it. This was BEFORe I started work / babysitting /tutoring/ and going to class. In all honesty, I have been so exhausted by the time Friday comes, not to mention I have to sit in class for 2 hours FRIDAY NIGHTS! Who does that! lol. Anyway, My FH and I have been to 13 weddings since we've known each other and it has been one right after the other (some within days of each other!) and our next one isn't until MARCH, so we have SO MUCH time to SAVE money for our OWN wedding. We both vowed that we wouldn't go out to eat, wouldnt go out and spend tons of money on drinks and going out. Don't get me wrong, I love going out with these girls, but I am just SO TIRED and they do not understand!
One was like 'We planned this so long ago you can't not come'
FH, me , and a few of my friends from HS are going apple picking tomorrow morning, I really don't want to be hungover for that, and we have our Epics on Sunday, which I want to be well rested for (I swear as I get older, I get more and more like a grandma! I can't drink two days in a row, and if I drink Friday, I'm done until Monday! loll) so I really don't want to go to her apt, go out til God knows when, then have to wake up early to go way out east. ( she lives in queens)
I want to try and lose some weight before my wedding, and I really want to cut back on drinking, not because its given me unwanted lbs in the last few years, but because I want to be healthier, and save money! Why can't they understand that! The one BM was married over the summer and I even said to her 'You know how it is trying to save for a wedding' and she goes 'Well our parents both paid for it'
Tht just makes me so madddddddd. Me and FH both come from a family of 6 and its hard because our parents put all 4 kids each through college and they've been paying for loans, their own bills and worrying about saving for our wedding. Me and FH are pretty much paying for the whole reception so we really need to buckle down and start saving more.
I wish our parents could give more, but you know what? They can't afford to. They are giving us a huge amount already, and I just feel so bad! I love my parents to death and I don't want them to worry about money :(
The other girl, (upstate) is friends with the BM that I'm talking about. She made upstate girl facebook me saying 'You have to come out Frday bc I made a CD for you' Like really?! I dont want to come out!
Thennnnnn she has her husband call my FH (they are friends from HS) and ask if he's doing anything bc he is free that night. FH tells me this and I just get so mad. She can't get it that I don't want to and can't go out!!! Don't try to convince my FH to go out with your husband so I have nothing to do! I rather go to bed eearly tonight! UGH
sorry, I am just so mad and this is no way to start a FRIDAY. UGH. I'm so pissed =\
and PS
I am taking my masters, and I have to do observations, and my friend who is married above, works in a school, so she said she would sign my papers and say I was there (I really can't leave my work bc I'm a teacher as well and it just wouldn't work out right now!) So I need a letter saying I can observe there, so I asked her to just write one up and fax it to my school. She was like 'type one up and email it to me and I'll sign and do it.'
Like really, you can't just do me that favor and write 'dear so and so I am allowing sarah to oberve at *schools name* for her observation hours, any questions, please call blah blah blah'
she wouldn't do it.
so I had to write pretty much what I just did and I emailed it to her.
seriously? with my scedule lately, I have no time for myself.
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
sorry girls, :(
a few months ago, two of my BM's and I planned a girls night for tonight. One of our friends from upstate is coming down just for it. This was BEFORe I started work / babysitting /tutoring/ and going to class. In all honesty, I have been so exhausted by the time Friday comes, not to mention I have to sit in class for 2 hours FRIDAY NIGHTS! Who does that! lol. Anyway, My FH and I have been to 13 weddings since we've known each other and it has been one right after the other (some within days of each other!) and our next one isn't until MARCH, so we have SO MUCH time to SAVE money for our OWN wedding. We both vowed that we wouldn't go out to eat, wouldnt go out and spend tons of money on drinks and going out. Don't get me wrong, I love going out with these girls, but I am just SO TIRED and they do not understand!
One was like 'We planned this so long ago you can't not come'
FH, me , and a few of my friends from HS are going apple picking tomorrow morning, I really don't want to be hungover for that, and we have our Epics on Sunday, which I want to be well rested for (I swear as I get older, I get more and more like a grandma! I can't drink two days in a row, and if I drink Friday, I'm done until Monday! loll) so I really don't want to go to her apt, go out til God knows when, then have to wake up early to go way out east. ( she lives in queens)
I want to try and lose some weight before my wedding, and I really want to cut back on drinking, not because its given me unwanted lbs in the last few years, but because I want to be healthier, and save money! Why can't they understand that! The one BM was married over the summer and I even said to her 'You know how it is trying to save for a wedding' and she goes 'Well our parents both paid for it'
Tht just makes me so madddddddd. Me and FH both come from a family of 6 and its hard because our parents put all 4 kids each through college and they've been paying for loans, their own bills and worrying about saving for our wedding. Me and FH are pretty much paying for the whole reception so we really need to buckle down and start saving more.
I wish our parents could give more, but you know what? They can't afford to. They are giving us a huge amount already, and I just feel so bad! I love my parents to death and I don't want them to worry about money :(
The other girl, (upstate) is friends with the BM that I'm talking about. She made upstate girl facebook me saying 'You have to come out Frday bc I made a CD for you' Like really?! I dont want to come out!
Thennnnnn she has her husband call my FH (they are friends from HS) and ask if he's doing anything bc he is free that night. FH tells me this and I just get so mad. She can't get it that I don't want to and can't go out!!! Don't try to convince my FH to go out with your husband so I have nothing to do! I rather go to bed eearly tonight! UGH
sorry, I am just so mad and this is no way to start a FRIDAY. UGH. I'm so pissed =\
and PS
I am taking my masters, and I have to do observations, and my friend who is married above, works in a school, so she said she would sign my papers and say I was there (I really can't leave my work bc I'm a teacher as well and it just wouldn't work out right now!) So I need a letter saying I can observe there, so I asked her to just write one up and fax it to my school. She was like 'type one up and email it to me and I'll sign and do it.'
Like really, you can't just do me that favor and write 'dear so and so I am allowing sarah to oberve at *schools name* for her observation hours, any questions, please call blah blah blah'
she wouldn't do it.
so I had to write pretty much what I just did and I emailed it to her.
seriously? with my scedule lately, I have no time for myself.
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
sorry girls, :(
