blowout with FH tonite

Well it was bound to happen....i knew wedding planning wasnt all perfect

it was about the usual: Money, money, parents, money, regrets, and money


we talked a lot of stuff out when we calmed down,...we got pretty close to calling the wedding off (but not the relationship thank god)

so its all camled down. im glad were past it but i felt i needed to get it all off my chest


thanks for your friendly ear!

sorry u two had to go through that!

Is it a full moon tonight or something? I too had it out with my fi tonight. I am SO annoyed! I was getting ready to go over to my friend's house to address the envelopes when he said 'you can't do them yet'...um, why? 'because my cousin Johnny doesn't live in NY anymore, he lives in another state now'...OK, do you have the new address? 'NO!'...OK, so can you get the new address? So he calls his mom's house, speaks to his dad because mom is not home and refuses to call the parents of the cousin who moved because 'one of my other cousins who I'm not inviting may pick up the phone and I feel weird'...He FLAT OUT refused to call! Like a baby - threw a tantrum and everything! UGH! So I cancelled with my friend and told him to fleck off and do the planning himself...I'm done with weddings!

Wow, sorry about hijacking your post...I guess I'm still peeved! And the worst part? He's been trying to be nice to me ever since...I hate him so much sometimes!

Sorry guys suck honey, I know EXACTLY how you feel!

poor baby... those fights just suck! We just had a doozy over engagement pics that my friend was willing to do for free- he said no...HUGE FIGHT! I think the wedding planning gets to all us

I'm sorry for everyone's problems It definitely must be something in the air- FH and I had a big fight as well, but last night.

I'm sorry to hear about your blow out but 'm sure glad you both kissed and made up

AB - I think the fighting is party of wedding planning. It is such a stressful time for you both and a big financial responsilbility. I am glad you both calmed down and settled things.

everything is back to normal today...well actually a bit better

we actually sat down and went through the menu again to narrow our choices down

we double checked dates of our next payments

and we looked at engagement picture locations together


maybe having it all our got him to kick his booty into gear and help me out


he also said he woudl go with me to the bm dress search since hes giving me all these rules to follow .... so i said just come with us...and he is!!!


sorry for everyone elses fights

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Posted by Anti-Bride

everything is back to normal today...well actually a bit better

we actually sat down and went through the menu again to narrow our choices down

we double checked dates of our next payments

and we looked at engagement picture locations together


maybe having it all our got him to kick his booty into gear and help me out


he also said he woudl go with me to the bm dress search since hes giving me all these rules to follow .... so i said just come with us...and he is!!!


sorry for everyone elses fights

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Isn't that amazing how you can fight it out and then feel that much closer? Its both cool and annoying