So my sister came to me yesterday and told me that she sent messages to all my BM. And everyone but one responded. So she said she sent another and still nothing. So she was getting upset, cause this girl I have know since we were in 7th grade and even my sister is friends with her. So she was asking me if everything was alright. She dosen't want me to say anything to her she just wanted to let me know. And also this same girl I have made plans with a couple of times and each time she cancels. And I even made plans to go see her and have lunch with her and her new boyfriend and when we got there she was 1 1/2 hrs late and she said she ate already. So we were pissed. Here we were starving cause we hadn't eaten all day and we make plans to meet up and get something to eat and she is late and already ate. I don't know what to do.
AmandaLynn04
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I might say something, casually.
Just like, 'Hey, my sister is trying to get in touch with you, is everything okay?'
It stinks that you're being put in this situation. Maybe she's jealous?
AMGBride2008
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It's probalby the new boyfriend and nothing personal. You know how you used to get when you had a new boyfriend... your world revolves around him. Like Amanda said, I might casually let her know that your sister is trying to reach her and is starting to get worried.
mariaobride
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wow it seems like many brides have the same issue with their bm's maybe she is envious of you or something is bothering her- I would confront her nicely and see what she says rather be upfront now then realize as the date gets closer there is tention at least you will feel better approaching her
Julybride08
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It's probalby the new boyfriend and nothing personal. You know how you used to get when you had a new boyfriend... your world revolves around him. Like Amanda said, I might casually let her know that your sister is trying to reach her and is starting to get worried.
Actually I never acted like that. Me and FH have always included our friends and family and if we made plans we wouldn't break them. I told her that i had other people wanted to go out on saturday and she told me should would come down and hangout. Then the next time i talked to her she said oh my boyfriend HAS TO work over time. So We can't come. so when i ask her to just come she chenged the subject and didn't answer me. Weird!!
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It's probalby the new boyfriend and nothing personal. You know how you used to get when you had a new boyfriend... your world revolves around him. Like Amanda said, I might casually let her know that your sister is trying to reach her and is starting to get worried.
Actually I never acted like that. Me and FH have always included our friends and family and if we made plans we wouldn't break them. I told her that i had other people wanted to go out on saturday and she told me should would come down and hangout. Then the next time i talked to her she said oh my boyfriend HAS TO work over time. So We can't come. so when i ask her to just come she chenged the subject and didn't answer me. Weird!!
I wouldn't take it personally. I guarentee she's just wrapped up in the new boyfriend. It suucks that she's choosing him over you, but I bet that will pass with time (unless she's just like that all the time when she has a BF). Talk to her about it.
Julybride08
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It's probalby the new boyfriend and nothing personal. You know how you used to get when you had a new boyfriend... your world revolves around him. Like Amanda said, I might casually let her know that your sister is trying to reach her and is starting to get worried.
Actually I never acted like that. Me and FH have always included our friends and family and if we made plans we wouldn't break them. I told her that i had other people wanted to go out on saturday and she told me should would come down and hangout. Then the next time i talked to her she said oh my boyfriend HAS TO work over time. So We can't come. so when i ask her to just come she chenged the subject and didn't answer me. Weird!!
I wouldn't take it personally. I guarentee she's just wrapped up in the new boyfriend. It suucks that she's choosing him over you, but I bet that will pass with time (unless she's just like that all the time when she has a BF). Talk to her about it.
Yeah I know, It's just my sister is trying to get everything done and she feels liek she dosen't want to be apart of it. It's hard cause she dosne't want me to get involved.
