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BM dresses- need advice

B22 Posted:

BM dresses- need advice

how long before the wedding did you guys get your BM dresses? If I order mine today I will get them the last week in August for a Sept 14th wedding. This is without putting a rush on them.

The rush charge is 60 dollars a dress, I would rather not have to shell out an extra 240 for them, but to ensure I have enough time for my girls to get them altered, I'll pay the extra charge.

Plus, all of my girls live out of state but I should be seeing each other them around that time.
MrsB2BE Posted:

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I ordered my dresses 2/19 and they just came in on Saturday. This time of the year is busy season for these companies. I would recommend putting a rush on the dresses since you have BM's that are out of state

MrsQ-in2007 Posted:

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Ugh, that SUCKKKKKKKS! So are you paying for their dresses? Or you would just pay for the rush fee since you moved up your wedding?

I think 2 weeks would *technically* be enough for quick alterations like hem or whatever, but add that some/most/all of your girls are not in NYC, you still have to ship the dresses to them, they have to find a seamstress and find time to GO get it altered, etc etc. I think you should just pay for the rush.

Besides, if there's a problem with a dress, you'd much rather know BEFORE 2 weeks before your wedding.

The other alternative is to find a similar style dress elsewhere that you can get quicker. Want to post a pic of it so we can help?
tricia3381 Posted:

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if u go to david's u could them back with in 2-4 weeks.

StarryEyedBride Posted:

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My BM dresses were ordered June 1st and expected in Sept. 2nd and I'm panicked about it! I should've rushed them, but didn't think it would take that long.... rush them... I know it's a lot of money...but it's paying for piece of mind, which during all the other stress going on is priceless!

B22 Posted:

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thanks guys!!! I'm going to pay for the rush, my girls are going to pay for the dresses. I think I'll just rush them for piece of mind.

If you think abut all that we're spending on our wedding, 240 more dollars is nothing. lol

thanks again.
aimes1313 Posted:

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I would rush them because your girls are OOT. If they have to be mailed, or if they have to come pick them up, the extra time will be helpful.

B22 Posted:

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Posted by MrsQ-in2007

So are you paying for their dresses? Or you would just pay for the rush fee since you moved up your wedding?



I'm just paying the rush b/c its my fault for moving up the wedding
B22 Posted:

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oooooooo creepy. I had to reply again b/c my post count was 666.
MrsQ-in2007 Posted:

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Posted by carolinep24


Posted by MrsQ-in2007

So are you paying for their dresses? Or you would just pay for the rush fee since you moved up your wedding?



I'm just paying the rush b/c its my fault for moving up the wedding



That's very nice and considerate of you! Yeah, I think the $240 is worth it for your peace of mind. With the rush, when will they come in?
B22 Posted:

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Posted by MrsQ-in2007


Posted by carolinep24


Posted by MrsQ-in2007

So are you paying for their dresses? Or you would just pay for the rush fee since you moved up your wedding?



I'm just paying the rush b/c its my fault for moving up the wedding



That's very nice and considerate of you! Yeah, I think the $240 is worth it for your peace of mind. With the rush, when will they come in?



If I order them today, mid-July...
MF9282 Posted:

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I had them order their gowns in February and they have not come in yet. Do whatever you feel most comfrotable with.

Kara and Todd Posted:

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That's cutting it pretty short for alterations, especially if a dress comes in with an issue.

My BM dresses just arrived and my wedding is August 11. I would want about 6 weeks before the wedding to feel safe, personally.
MrsQ-in2007 Posted:

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Posted by carolinep24


Posted by MrsQ-in2007


Posted by carolinep24


Posted by MrsQ-in2007

So are you paying for their dresses? Or you would just pay for the rush fee since you moved up your wedding?



I'm just paying the rush b/c its my fault for moving up the wedding



That's very nice and considerate of you! Yeah, I think the $240 is worth it for your peace of mind. With the rush, when will they come in?



If I order them today, mid-July...



Mid July is WAY better than late August... that's an extra 6 weeks so it's definitely worth the added cost.
PegaLega Posted:

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My order went out the last week of January and they came in about 3 weeks before the wedding
heatherandrichie Posted:

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I ordered mine in Nov., they took 16 weeks. I got them in Feb. and my wedding is next month.

Shorty McBride Posted:

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I ordered mine mid march, and they arrived Mid May.

They were 3 different styles of DaVinci dresses.
AlmostKulak Posted:

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Def. pay for the rush that is cutting it close!! We ordered mine in Feb and they just came in last week!

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