BM driving me insane

so today my bm is giving me such an attitude...

first she tells me that she's gonna wear any shoe she has in the closet because she doesnt want to spend money...which is fine becuause i know shes struggling so i asked her okay thats good. so u have silver shoes?

she says no, why do they have to be silver shoes if you cant see the shoe? (dress is long)

i said well, it matches the dress and i do want to take that picture with all our shoes.

so she said 'wow you're turning into a bridezilla'

and i flipped
i was like 'actually, if i were turning into a bridezilla, id be asking all of u to get the SAME shoe dyed in burt orange. NOW THATS EXPENSIVE AND THATS not accomadating to your budgets' which i have been nice about all this time...

so she was quiet

then she says 'do u mind if i dont get ready at your house' and i was like no not at all

so she said 'okay good ill meet u at church'

i said no wait u dont have to get READY at my house but u do have to come ot my house for pics'

she was like 'i dont think im gonna get ready there since i can't afford hair and makeup'

and then she finished by saying 'i can do it myself for less' okkkkkkkkk so thats fine except she topped it off by saying 'besides i wasnt really impressed by your make up'

OH HELL NO!!!

my side hurts from this aggravation!

out of nowhere too. i have been nothing but nice to these girls. ive tried to accomodate budgets by looking for an inexpensive dress, not being picky about shoes. finding a lady that does hair fo 25 bucks. makeup i dont care if they use sandra or not but she shouldnt have made that comment. im so mad and hurt!

i mean these girls havent even stepped up to get my shower together. i really regret my bm choices and my moh of honor choice even tho its my sister...shes been a diva herself.

im just tired of them.

i should have just walked down the aisle a lone with my groomsmen. eff that

you're right. it sucks too when fh reminds me by saying 'well you picked them' yeah thanks a lot u a**! lol

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Posted by InLuvWithMyBF

you're right. it sucks too when fh reminds me by saying 'well you picked them' yeah thanks a lot u a**! lol

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ahh a stater of the obvious gotta love them sheesh

O MG What a BI!tch!!!!!

Sorry but she is


HOW DARE SHE TO SAY DA TO U


wow...

U dont need ppl like da...

SCREW HER chicaaaaaa



da is fked up0!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I kicked out a BM and refunded her dress deposit...and now I have to pay the balance....

but in the end? SO WORTH IT

I'm sorry your girls are being so aggravating...it's like they didn't know what being in a wedding entailed...it's insane!

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Posted by merelynn10

she is so rude! so sorry

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Rude is def. the word. i don't know how someone can be so blatant!

Is there a way she can do something else other than raise your blood pressure??? 'cause it seems like she doesn't understand what you're going through nor care. If not that, be the 'bridezilla' (that you clearly aren't) and have her get the shoes dyed at payless or something...those shoes are inexpensive and the dye job is included.

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Posted by Danielle41209

Is there a way she can do something else other than raise your blood pressure??? 'cause it seems like she doesn't understand what you're going through nor care. If not that, be the 'bridezilla' (that you clearly aren't) and have her get the shoes dyed at payless or something...those shoes are inexpensive and the dye job is included.

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i agree whole heartedly with u! im tempted. im tired of everyone!

Don't be tempted - just do it! If people are having freak-outs over shoes, what will happen on day of?

Sorry, I just get soooo bothered w/ some of the BM stories I hear from you girls and how some people treat others :-/

If you don't settle this now and tell her that you are upset with what she said, I would kick that brat OUT of the wedding party... Just because she has money issues, it doesnt mean she should insult you and your decisions, when you are obviously being very accomodating.

You don't want someone in your wedding party that is not completely and totally happy for YOU!

One of my BM's yelled at me (3 bottles of wine deep into the wineries last summer) that I didnt make her the maid of honor... and some other really nasty things abt my MOH.. I told her if she doesnt like it, she doesn't have to go. There was a lot behind this whole argument, but in the end, we ended up working through our issues... but ur BM needs a wake-up call. This likely stems from jealousy.

I get calls and emails all the time from my girls about updates and what I'm planning right now... if one girl pulled that on me so close to the wedding, she's obviously not a real friend.

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Posted by adelz

Don't be tempted - just do it! If people are having freak-outs over shoes, what will happen on day of?

Sorry, I just get soooo bothered w/ some of the BM stories I hear from you girls and how some people treat others :-/

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no i know
i knew this would happen tho because most of my friends are guys. i knnew i was going to have trouble with these girls. also, my own sister tho shes just a teenager is not being cooperative either.

yesterday i had to tell her to not help me at all because she was complaining the whole time while helping me put stickers on the candy buffet bags and then got on the phone to complain to her friend while helping me so i took the stickers and bags from her and told her to leave.