grr im so mad right now!! today I ordered my BM dresses and four of my 7 girls came today. One which is my best friend since 2nd grade. shes very materialistic type of person and has to have everything her way or no way. everything has to be name brand. she wanted me to get like vera wang gowns. my friends and family dont have that kind of money! shes crazy!! so we get to the place they all get fitted and the woman tells her she is inbetween sizes can she try on the two sizes and she which one she likes and my best friend gos, umm no just pick a size for me and i look at her and im like ashley just try it on i dont want to hear that your dress doesnt fit the day of my wedding. oh and before all this she was soo late!! we had an appointment for 11 and we didnt get there till close to 2!!!! i swear if shes late the day of my wedding~!! i told her to be at my house at 10 so i knew she would get there by 11 but NOOO so anyway back to the fitting. so the womans like what size should i put down and my friend gos im leaving it up to you. i was so embrassed at the way she was acting she was so loud and rude! shes been like this since she was little and i knew this but i thought she would of grown up. im so embrasseed you have nooo idea!! ohhhhhhh and on top of her beinng rude , do you know what she told me about the BM dress?????? are you serious these are them?? the are freaken ugly!! cant you pick something else out for me to wear. and remind you shes not my MOH. then i told her well you dont like the kiss my a$$ and you dont have to be in the wedding. then she said FINE ill wear it. HOW FREAKEN RUDE!!! ugghhh im so pissed right now. anyone eles have a BM from hell?!?!?!
Gin-Char 104
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OMG That Stinks i am sorry to hear that sound like you got a narsassistic/boarderline on your hands!
but i think it's great you orderd the BM dresses.......one less thing to do!
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omg im so sorry i understand what u are going through i once got kicked out of davids bridal because my BM's got into a fight
good luck and 'breathe'
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Hey Tara, I am so sorry. The last thing you need is to be dealing with BM drama. I hate drama!! Hopefully things subside. Maybe you can tell her that this is your time and you dont need her crap right now. and she'll realize its YOUR wedding not hers!
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Tara, I am SOOOO sorry this BM is being a pain in the A$$!!! Tell her to give me a call-I'll straighten her out. If she gives you any more problems then I would reconsider even having her in the BP.
Happybride2005
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that's terrible. can we see what the dress looks like
EJSD2006
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i hate to say it, but i had a biotchy BM that was always negative about everything and would not respond to my emails or calls...so i gave her the boot. everyone says it was because she was jealous that i was getting married before her. it wasnt an easy decision to make and now we dont speak at all. so before you make any hasty decisions, just talk to her calmly and explain that this is a big deal to you and that if she was really your best friend she could try to make it important to her too.
is your friend married or engaged? perhaps her negativity and attitude are due to her being jealous.
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I am so you have to go through this. I think I am going to be in the same boat. One of my girls is already saying she wants to buy her own dress, Something she likes.
iffy
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Sounds like it's time to put an ad on Craig's list!!!
OctoberPrincess2006
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people are so unbelievable sometimes.
Mooshyboo
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OMG I am soooo Sorry to hear you are going through this with your BM....
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Posted by iffy
Sounds like it's time to put an ad on Craig's list!!!
Sorry for laughing but now that you've got it out, try a smile. Don't let her waste your precious sanity. You'll need it! Tell her exactly how you feel without pointing out her bad traits, it will only make her more ridiculous.... Good luck!
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Kick her out ...seriously. If shes that rude, late, and insulting to your before the wedding, what will she do the day of???
I would not stand for any inconsiderate/horrible BM behavior...if anything else happens with her, think about it.
until then
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OMG IM SOOO SORRY I think every bride has BM's From Hell >.. LOL ... mine were tring to talk me out of my whole Color Scheme HOW RUDE.. I told them Stright out when its your turn Let me pick you color if you want to pick mine and they Shut up Real Fast...
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No need for you to embarrassed, she is the one that acted like the spoiled bratty 2 yr old. Sorry you had to deal with that though. Hopefully she will grow up real fast.
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First of all, I am sure that your BM dresses are not ugly....her attitude is what was ugly and its a shame that she just can't be happy from you. Now that the dresses are order you don't really have to include her in any other planning.
Don't worry...the day will be BEAUTIFUL
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OHHH I feel the same way. Its ridiculous. Why do we feel like we have to put these people in the wedding party? I have one Im not so happy with...I barely speak to her...its like obligation. Im not going to let it bother me...and your wedding is just as far away as mine...we have plenty of time to give em the boot!!
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Thats rude. She need an attitude check.
Mandyin2007
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I would have freaked out. How dare she act so disrespectful toward you. If she doesn't like the dress she doesn't have to wear it or be in your BP. That is so rude!
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Im so sorry that's horrible. Like you dont have enough to put up with.
