So FH received an email this past Friday from his sister...This was after he had reached out to her directly 2 weeks prior. Anway her response to giving us an answer or not was this
'I would like to sit with the two of you and have you explain to me how much of my time is expected to be invested as well as money into this wedding. From there I will come up with an informed decision as to whether or not I can be a part of your wedding'
How about I help you..............YOUR OUT!!!
JennyAPH
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Yeah I would def. say 'don't bother'... who responds like that??
Im a Pepper
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OH EWWW! Does she think she's THAT important. With that attitude, I wouldn't even want her at the wedding. Gross!
Sorry you have to deal with that. I wonder if she knows she's being a complete bi@tch.
NickandTara426
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EFF that!
mimid15
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Right?!?!?!? What a BRAT
I told FH as far as I am concerned she is out of the wedding party. Im done wasting anymore time waiting for this princess to bless us with her decision about our wedding party. And to be honest, Im only having her bc its his only sibling!!!
jennaandguy09
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THAT is incredibly unnecessary, no need for her to be in your BP, do yourselves a favor and get rid of her, I'm sure it won't upset her!!! what a jerk!!
gina409
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wow!!!!!!!! sorry but i say boot her..u r doing the right thing..who need the added stress
pooh57362
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wow is she kidding? DEF make the decision for her - she's cut!
pandafish519
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WHAT?!?!?! that is insane and so rude! tell her you don't want her to be a part of it! UGH!! i'm so annoyed for you!
Diamondsgirl09
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WOW, that is crazy
ANT-N-BON-09
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im sorry.....if she wanted to be in the party, regardless of cost, shed find a way. I would boot her also.....jmo
PeterNina Mom
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I agree she should BE OUT OF THE WEDDING!! How rude that is.
geegee827
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my vote - She's OUT!!!
little34
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Wow...I would just tell FH to tell his sister that based on her response that he would rather her not waste her time and energy being in the wedding... yuck!!! Just make sure you stay out of dealing with her.... WHAT A CRAZY B*TCH!!!!
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I'd say, thanks but no thanks. If she's so short on time to be your BM, then I'm surprised she has the time to sit and have this conversation!
Seriously.
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I think that is the worst thing I have heard a BM say to someone on this site! and from a RELATIVE no less.. I would make her decision a lot easier by removing her from the BP!
mimid15
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Right?!?! How much more insulting and thoughtless can she be??. Its his one and only sibling so I have dont my best keeping my mouth shut but I have reached my limit. Im not even discussing it with her anymore, not giving her another minute of my time. She is just a rude brat and Ive had enough!!
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I would agree with you 100%, you don't need to deal with that drama.
jlovesa
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What a BIT*H!!!
I would tell her that from the tenor of her response, it is clear that ANY amount of time or money that she would be asked to invest would be too much for her and therefore you interpret her response as a NO. End of discussion.
