Please help me with honest opinions... I have 5 BM's and am struggling over gift ideas. I have gotten them all candles and will have a tag engraved for them... then my thought was to have each of them over the day before the wedding and give them the gift of massage The girl would come to my house, do 1 hr on each and we'd spend the evening together. Well, here comes my mother raining on my parade telling me that is a cheesy gift. Opinions???
sanmik
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I think the massage is great idea. It's not cheesey.
WeezieNY
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I think its a great idea. i would have loved it as a gift. i have been bm so many times and would have loved it.
jcndd
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I thought it was nice too. Anyone that WOULDN'T like this?
jenny2penny
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jcndd
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Great point Jenny. I have to EASE it into the conversation and see if they'd be mortified. Most of them I know would love, but 2 may not. Have to subtely check.
Sage10.03
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I WOULD LOVE IT!!!!
can I be a bridesmaid?
julybride444
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I would be really uncomfortable personally. I wouldn't want a friend to give me a massage, I'd never be able to relax and I'd think it was weird. I think my BMs would too, except my sister b/c she's my sister.
julybride444
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How about splurging for a facial at a spa, or making them all dinner or something?
jcndd
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It's not a friend giving the massage, July.. I am having a therapist come to my house. They'll get a brochure of all her services, types of massage, etc. (she does facials also) Does that change your opinion?
