BM help

I am having a hard time deciding on whether to have a friend of mine as a BM.

We already have a big BP :

Man OH, MOH, 5 BMs, and 3 FGs.

BM, junior BM, 5 GM, and 3 RBs.

Her and met last may, and this year have become pretty close, although I am not sure how she would feel about being asked since we have not known eachother that long. She is always offering to help me with everything- she is a wonderful person. We are asking this sunday at our e-party, and am having a hard time deciding what I should do. Should I ask her, or should just leave things as is since the BP is already pretty big?

I think you should ask her I am sure she would be honored. One of my friends in my BP I have only known foor 2 years but I am better friends with her than people I have known much longer! But if yu do ask her, then are you going to get another GM to even out?

I would ask her to help out in some other way. I had a friend like that as well . . . and I asked her to help with the set up of the reception hall. . . . like decorating the cake table, placecard tables, etc. She was absolutely thrilled.

Maybe she can be a hostess, usher, or reader! Either way, she will be happy to participate, I'm sure!