BM Hits the dust

Lana and Johan Posted: Oct 14, 2010 10:26 PM

BM Hits the dust

One of my bm's just dropped out...now i have 2 and one MOH.....

jesstangney Posted: Oct 14, 2010 10:28 PM

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I'm so sorry, that really sucks! That is still plenty, you will have a GREAT day! That's basically what I have since one of my bm's lives in Boston (fsil) and is kinda clueless with all the wedding planning stuff.

DoctorDani Posted: Oct 14, 2010 10:28 PM

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Aw, I know how you feel. I offered one of my BMs an out because she is trying to get pregnant and is in the process of selling her house and buying a new one. She took the out and I'm gonna miss her!

rendel Posted: Oct 14, 2010 10:33 PM

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why did she leave? I'm sorry!!

Lana and Johan Posted: Oct 14, 2010 10:34 PM

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She said she was really busy and had no time for the dresses, planning, etc :(

jesstangney Posted: Oct 14, 2010 10:35 PM

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At least she was honest!!! She could have stayed and left you in the lurch on so much stuff!

Soapgirl4ever Posted: Oct 14, 2010 10:36 PM

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mollygurl24 Posted: Oct 14, 2010 10:37 PM

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Aww I am sorry

Lana and Johan Posted: Oct 14, 2010 10:39 PM

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Thanks ladies, it just sux cause I already had a small party as it is :(

jesstangney Posted: Oct 14, 2010 10:41 PM

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who cares how small the bp is!!!! You are the center of attention that day, no one will even remember the bp! (and at least you have one - one of my friends had a moh for herself & a bm for FH!)

fdnybride163 Posted: Oct 14, 2010 11:00 PM

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it sucks to loose a girl but at least she was honest with you instead of screwing you in the end. It doesnt matter how many girls you have as long as you have that one guy standing next to you at the alter that is allthat matters!

spdy540 Posted: Oct 15, 2010 05:26 AM

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LoveyDovey Posted: Oct 15, 2010 05:31 AM

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awwww! sorry to hear this!

i wish some BMs would drop out lol

FutureJOC Posted: Oct 15, 2010 07:36 AM

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That stinks... I'm sorry!

evita2781 Posted: Oct 15, 2010 08:48 AM

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aww i'm sorry. but it's better that she did this now than later and closer to the wedding

MrsTarricone2B Posted: Oct 15, 2010 08:50 AM

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I'm so sorry, that stinks!! But you're day is still going to be perfect, don't stress it.

futurestevens Posted: Oct 15, 2010 08:55 AM

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aww i'm sorry, that's really sucky!

jettahot Posted: Oct 15, 2010 08:58 AM

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well at least she let u know now instead of much later!! im sorry to hear tho hun!

Lana and Johan Posted: Oct 15, 2010 09:04 AM

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You are all right and I shouldn't stress over it. It's just disappointing. I wasn't asking her to donate so much time....I asked for one day to go try on dresses and one day to be there for the wedding...a true friend would find the time right?

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Oct 15, 2010 09:43 AM

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Posted by Lana and Johan

You are all right and I shouldn't stress over it. It's just disappointing. I wasn't asking her to donate so much time....I asked for one day to go try on dresses and one day to be there for the wedding...a true friend would find the time right?

I agree.. She made it about herself...Similar to what happened with my BM earlier this week.. but it's all good, at least she did it now and not later...

BTW, I am not replacing her, just adding 2 Junior BM....so I will now have more than my FH on my side but I don't care...we have close family friends and family there now...