If anybody needs DOJ for BMs, moms, or anybody else (even yourselves!), definitely talk to Alicia from Ali's Baubles and Her 40 Beads!
I first contacted her on Thursday to explain what I was looking for. I sent her a picture of a necklace I was trying to match and a picture of the BMs' dress and gave her a bit of an idea what I was thinking I wanted. In 48 hours she had hand-made literally 20 different versions of earrings for me to choose from!! She was wonderfully communicative and willing to make ANY adjustment until it was exactly what I wanted. She sent pictures every step of the way to confirm it was just right. I'll have the whole order (eight pairs) in ten days! Prices are very reasonable too!
I put a picture of the final version in an album--LOVE them!!