BM need to vent

OK so I send my girls an email about making an apt for BM dress--
''ok WE need to go for your dresses, Bayshore Bridal where I got my dress is
open sat 10-5pm so I was thinking of making a 2:30 3pm apt-- Jos and Matt go
to dance and karate on sat Emily has bowling at 12:30-1:30.
The dates are 10/15, 10/22 or 10/29 --- I am voting for the 15th just because it is
closer. Let me know what days are good for you. I need to call and make an
apt ;)''

one response is later is better-- later in the day in the month WHAT???

2nd response is what am I going to do with the kids and what date is it again-- you never got back to me with a date---find a solution w/the kids(this is my sisters way of asking if my FH has watch them)

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR I just want to get this done !!!!!

I agree with you. Some of my girls don't even want to go looking for dresses until December

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Posted by stephanief

I agree with you. Some of my girls don't even want to go looking for dresses until December

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I want to get the dress is done ( they all might have diff color dresses might not) so then I can figure out my flowers. can not do one w/out doing the other -- and I am trying to be nice and comprimise saying pick a date is this time ok....

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Posted by jilmadison

I have 9 girls, so getting them all to get the dress thing done was not easy

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I only have 3 I feel for you w/9

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Posted by Mrs.A2006

I am sorry....you think they would just respond with the date and time they prefer so you could finalize everything. Maybe if you sent them a 2nd e-mail saying I made an appointment on this day & time and ask them to reply back if they can make it. If they can't make it what time or day would be better.

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that is a good idea-- thanks

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Posted by hsacks23r

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Posted by Mrs.A2006

I am sorry....you think they would just respond with the date and time they prefer so you could finalize everything. Maybe if you sent them a 2nd e-mail saying I made an appointment on this day & time and ask them to reply back if they can make it. If they can't make it what time or day would be better.

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that is a good idea-- thanks

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Your welcome.....I am dreading having to this with my BM's....they have all been warned that I plan on dress shopping in Jan...so hopefully they won't be all surprised when I tell them we need to make an appointment! Yeah right like that is going to happen..

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Posted by iffer042373

I have 8 girls and I am going with 3 or 4 t o look at dresses and pic out 2 or 3 that they like and then go with the other girls and show then these dresses only and have tehm vote o n which they like the best and thats the dress we go with

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I told my girls after I got my dress ok start lokking on line and in books mag what ever to find something you might like--- they have not done a thing.....stresssssssss thats all. Ok im going to take a deep breath,,,,,,, ok

I do not want to turn into a bridzilla

I picked the dress and told them to go and order it

much easier

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Posted by Beth1210

I picked the dress and told them to go and order it

much easier

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I did the same thing - I am all about not stressing my self out!

And they wonder why we turn into Bridezillas.

We all just need to have crazy patience.