I need a little advice... About 2 years ago my cousin (who i was always so close with but have drifted apart through the years) got married and his fiance asked me to be in her bridal party because I was so close with him. I thought it was so nice especially because we were not close at all. We actually never have any thing to say to each other, but I really do try. We still have that very same relationship today, never talk and only make small talk at family GTG's. I feel like I will start a World War if I don't ask her to be in mine but I have called her 2x already and she hasnt called me back, in addition to the fact that I don't really like her. Help! What do I do? If you guys say I have to, I will just suck it up. Thank you!!!
tricia3381
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i wouldn't have her in it. i mean if ur having trouble just getting in contact with her to ask her to be in it, can u imagine what a headache it will to get in touch with her when u really need to?
JessieC
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Posted by tricia3381
i wouldn't have her in it. i mean if ur having trouble just getting in contact with her to ask her to be in it, can u imagine what a headache it will to get in touch with her when u really need to?
You are absolutely right! I think I'm just nervous that she along with the rest of the family will get upset with me
tricia3381
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i understand that. but just think how bad it would if u had her in the party, but she was such pita that u had to ask her to step down?? that would be bad, really bad.
eunicsd006
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PERSONALLY I WANT PEOPLE IN MY BP THAT I LUV AND ARE SPECIAL TO ME......U DONT HAVE SOMEONE SHARE THAT WITH U IF THEY ARENT CLOSE TO YOU AND ESPECIALLY IF U REALLY DONT LIKE THEM .....BESIDES ITS YOUR WEDDING AND YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY NOT WORRIED ABOUT SMALL THINGS
You should have who you want in your BP and don't worry about what family has to say. They will get over it and too bad for them. If this chick hasn't returned your calls then- oh well, you tried!
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I wouldn't ask her if you tow don't liek each other you don't want her sabotaging your wedding photos by frowning in mos of them. The only obligation that you might feel is to include your cousin in the wedding somehow not her. I wouldn't even consider it she would totally be a downer on your very happy day.
giggles62
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I would talk to you family first let them know the situation about calling with no response and then telling them how you feel about her in the BP.
