BM Question

Alright - some of my BM's are not on speaking terms at this moment - we need to order the dresses very soon - should I go on two seperate days this way they will not see each other and feel uncomfortable or just go on one day and tell them to get over it - eventually they all have to be together and be civil

TIA

I am in the exact same position right now..

I am doing dress shopping in two runs.. A smaller group, then everyone once we have narrowed down. Then I'll need to go back one more time with my sis in law when she is in town-- I figure i can bring one of the non-speaking girls then..

OR-- they can just come on the same day and suck it up-- dress shopping will be the last time that it will only be bridesmaids there, so every time after that it will be less uncomfortable for them- bridal shower, bachelorette, WEDDING.. They can deal with it once..

As I can tell, I oscilate on this subject.. Good luck!

i hope you dont mind, but i wanted to make a suggestion..

i wish that i had done this.

i think that you should go with ONE girl maybe the MOH. pick out one or two dresses for the girls to chose, then tell them what it is, and make them order it, whenever they can.

i picked out the designer (bill levkoff) and the color (black euro satin) and told my girls to get what ever they wanted. I WANTED TO SHOOT MYSELF!!!! they are going to look great, b/c they all chose diff. dresses, but i wish that i picked 2 styles and said pick which one and get it.

jennifer

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Posted by JenniferLee111204

i hope you dont mind, but i wanted to make a suggestion..

i wish that i had done this.

i think that you should go with ONE girl maybe the MOH. pick out one or two dresses for the girls to chose, then tell them what it is, and make them order it, whenever they can.

i picked out the designer (bill levkoff) and the color (black euro satin) and told my girls to get what ever they wanted. I WANTED TO SHOOT MYSELF!!!! they are going to look great, b/c they all chose diff. dresses, but i wish that i picked 2 styles and said pick which one and get it.

jennifer

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Thats funny that you suggested this because that is exactly what I think I am gonna do - I picked out two Bill Levcoff dresses that are very similar - I am gonna go with my sister who is the moh to see if she likes the dresses and decide from there - Thanks