BM shoe dilemma!

julybride06 Posted: May 05, 2006 04:57 PM

BM shoe dilemma!

I went shopping with my BM for dyeable shoes. At the end of the day 4/5 girls bought the same shoes. (Although we certainly didn't plan it that way) After telling my FSIL that she's the only one wearing something different, she refuses to change it and/or try them on.

I know it's a minor detail and no one is looking at her anyway, but why is she being difficult? She doesn't understand why the MOH is wearing something different/looking different.

At this point I think I'm going to let her do whatever. I just wanted to know what you all thought?

P.S. I have been the FSIL at one point and I did EVERYTHING my sil wanted (cause I wanted us to start off the right way) I think that's why I don't understand this girl (who is married and is 30yrs old.)

suzybilly819 Posted: May 05, 2006 05:01 PM

Re: BM shoe dilemma!

Oh well, don't let this get to you. In the grand scheme of things this really is not important. Who knows why people do what they do...

I'm sure it will all look fine. I had a similar situation in a past bridal party. And when I look back at it now it was silly.

cjb88 Posted: May 05, 2006 05:04 PM

Re: BM shoe dilemma!

shoes were one of the things that i really didnt care about... no one really sees them or notices them, and they need to be comfortable for the girl who is wearing them... there is nothing worse than being stuck in a pair of evil shoes that are killing your feet!

julybride06 Posted: May 05, 2006 05:07 PM

Re: BM shoe dilemma!

Posted by suzybilly819

Oh well, don't let this get to you. In the grand scheme of things this really is not important. Who knows why people do what they do...

I'm sure it will all look fine. I had a similar situation in a past bridal party. And when I look back at it now it was silly.

I even feel sill saying it out loud. I think if my inlaws haven't been such a problem...it wouldn't be anything.