BM So Frustrating!!!!!

I completely understand. My own sister-in-law backed out and she was supposed to be MOH....long story!! But just know youll get thru it...dont let them ruin it for you!!!

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Posted by ErinC0119

There are some days that I wish I could put my 2 cats in the bridal party rather than the 2 idiots I already have. I honestly do not think after this wedding I will maintain a friendship with these girls. Anyone else feeling this way???

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I feel your pain!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by songwriterchic

glad to see I'm not the only one frustrated wtih my BM's ...it hasn't been that bad, I just have to see the rolling of the eyes and dirty looks whenever I seem excited and start to talk about my wedding... especially from my MOH (and she's my sister!) I didn't do that to her when she was planning her wedding! She acts like she can't be happy for me and it shows all over her face.

And then these girls act like they're so poor and can't afford to contribute to this or that, but yet they can go on vacation (when was the last time I went on vacation? I've been scraping the bottom of the barrel to pay for my wedding!) Yeah, I don't like the thought of anyone having to go into debt over my wedding, but I'm the one who's going the most into debt paying for this wedding, and it seems like no one wants to make a sacrifice for the biggest day of my life.

Thanks for letting me vent girls!

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Mine are doing this same crap! Complaining about money, but yet they have money for vacations and other things... it is so aggravating

Its really sad that some people can be that rude. I was getting alot of negative feedback from one of mine and i just stopped talking about the plans in general.

If you cant be support and stop being so judgemental then I will not include you. I actually one day came out and said this is why its my wedding and not yours!!!

I hated to be a jerk but I just couldnt take it anymore,

Everything was I dont like that, or this or I would never picked that. That song is horrible etc.etc.etc.