BM Vent

I am going to go nuts with this one BM. I know I am. I know its going to be non stop venting because she agrivates me..

ok so here is the latest, for months she tells me oh i have PT (physical therapy) in the morning and i cant miss it and anything you want to do for your wedding planning can you please make it after 2 because I have therapy and I can not in any way miss it.

FINE

So why is it, she emails me and tells me oh i am gong away this weekend leaving tonight and I am going away next weekend leaving friday night. Then I ask her to come with me somewhere and she tells me oh no i am leaving for florida and i wont be here.

So that makes it 3 sessions she is missing because when it benefits her screw everything else. Its like the world revolves around her and everyone else could go F themselves.

This is FI's cousin and I vent to him and all he tells me is what have i told you she is completely unreliable. when something benefits her she could care less about anyone else when they need her help and she comes first no matter what it is. she is selfish and unreliable.

so i know all of this, and yet i get myself so sick and so angry. i dont want to kick her out of the wedding, but she just aggrivates me so much.

thanks for letting me vent....

Kick her.

i'd like to beat her with a stick

i'd love too...knock some common sense into her brain

Yes!! KICK HER IN THE SHINS!!!
My old motto!!

I'm sorry Chippa that you are going thru this - you don't need these headaches.


Want me to take care of her for you

LOL...yea yea yea...

beat her over the head...yea yea yea...she needs that

I feel like the little smiley getting hit in the head right now...

Let me at her Chippa...I'm in the mood to yell at someone!

Sounds like she needs a boot up the a$$

Seriously - if you want to get her out, explain to her that as the wedding gets closser, you are going to need your bm's to be more available to you for appts, etc. If she says that she can not, than say 'oh, I'm sorry you will not be able to be a part of our bridal party, maybe you can do a reading or something'

I feel like being the smiley face hitting her with the mallet...

can i hit her pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeease.....one shot..boom right to the moon

I know...i just dont have the heart to do that...i am toooo nice...

I hope she snaps out of this. She's happy to be in the party and wants to do all this wedding stuff, but the minute something better for her comes up its all about her and screw everyone elses feelings.



I guess I'll just never learn....