BM Vent

oh Im sorry!

I am sorry you are going through this!!!

im so sorry..i dont think u r acting like a crazy lady...we just want our bms around usto listen to us nonstop talk bout weddings and help out with our crazy ideas...it must be frustrating for u because they r all out of state..im sorry..hope u feel better

OMG YESSS!!!! I was just planning to complain myself and u beat me to it so I will join ur complaints!
I have 2 BM and one MOH. My BMs ar great especially my favorite lurker
however MOH lives out of the country and so far she has done nothing!!!! She offers advice once in a while but it's like by the way.... she almost never asks how is the wedding planning going and I have to wait for weeks for her to get online so we can talk. Now the issue has been her coming here, she's suppose to come 3 weeks before the wedding which is in 3 months and so far she hasn't purchased a ticket and is basically keeping me in the dark about her plans!!!!!! The vent can go on and on... but bottom line, and this is one of the first advice I got:
No one cares about your wedding as much as you do, even if u want to feel like they do because they're ur special BMs they still won't reach ur level of excitement and attention to details completely, but they love u and will be there for you on the big day!!!!!!!
Enjoy your planning and don't hold a grudge. As they say u really find out who ur friends r when u start planning a wedding and most likely u'll see sides u don’t like and then just come here and we'll trash them

Thank you everyone